I care! Read the link - I don't know the woman but you MUST have noticed that he goads me at every opportunity? You don't like people getting abused Grahame but she is an abuser and the fact that I give back as good as I get shouldn't enter into it. She cannot debate the case and is underhanded. Fair enough if you like her but I choose my friends with more care! You weren't here when she tried to insinuate MD contacted her but it was the other way around, when she was caught out she tried to suggest her PM's here hacked by a mod or admin (she might as well have just said me!). But when that failed she picked up on a weak point where MD mentioned email instead of PM. Anyone who believes this woman should be very careful.
Yes I can see where you are coming from Caroline. But I think that you also will appreciate where I am coming from as well? But I certainly didn't get that impression when I was just defending myself against the abusers and I was the one who was called the abuser and according to one, "The worst abuser on the forum" which I might add was not refuted by the admin.
When I flare up against people it is because I can see their unnessessary abuse and mocking. But unfortunately some cannot see this and I usually get the blame for it and told I should know better.
I can also see where Jackie is coming from and I can say quite honestly how she is able to put up with all the abuse she got from those who belong to the so called red forum and who now post here is beyond me. I handled the abuse in a different way than she did. But I saw what she went through with threatening phone calls and pizzas and Indian meal delivered to her door and taxis sent round to her. It was so bad that I went to Chelmsford police with her anout those two in particular (both lived abroad) but the cops were the most useless lumps I had ever come across. When I see these pop stars and such getting cases brought against stalkers and the like, yet nothing was done to these two men, one of whom is allowed to post on here. All they said was, "Don't go online then. They can say what they like about you".
So although I certainly can see where you are coming from and believe that Jackie ought to tonethings down a bit. I can also appreciate her position and it would be a good thing if others try to see things from her perspective as well.