I seem to recall being scared of/disliking whiskered elderly relatives. I feel certain that none of them committed murders. It may be that JM's crimes have taken out of proportion. It seems to me they could fall into the same category in which you place Jeremy's.
" Whiskered elderly relatives "-------and that was just the women. !
Joking aside,we knew why the twins didn't like their WHF visits and it was nothing to do with the above,as it's been posted often enough. Understandable when it doesn't fit a personal scenario.!
A crime is a crime regardless of how " out of proportion " it would seem to be. It's still shameful as maybe that's what Neville was trying to say to BW when he mentioned about " bringing up his children,etc etc and that's how you're repaid " .