Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings

[lookout]

I thought Eric Jay was Sheila's grandfather/Christine's father, who was one of the officiating clerics at the Coronation. She also had an uncle who was a cleric. With such a family background it seems somewhat unusual for their daughter to end up in domestic service -albeit, royal.

As well as JB's birth mother at the age of 18 having also worked for Eric Jay,who I already knew was Christine's grandfather.
I was mainly pointing out the connection between both siblings re. them being adopted.

[David1819]

Classic answer.

A correct answer also.

[Caroline]

Both Sheila and Jeremy were connected  in some way to the Jay families. ?
Jeremy's birth mother is the daughter of the then chaplain to Eric Jay.
Sheila's birth mother is the daughter of one of the Jays.

How peculiar ?

Where are you getting this from Lookout?

[maggie]

Where are you getting this from Lookout?

I thought it was only Sheila who was connected to the Jay family?

[Jane]

I thought it was only Sheila who was connected to the Jay family?

According to all the information I can find, that's correct. Jeremy's mother, Juliet Wheeler was a student midwife who never had ANY connection with a member of the Jay family. Sheila and Jeremy's only connection to each other, as far as I can see, was that they became adopted siblings by circumstance.

[lookout]

Where are you getting this from Lookout?

From someone who's pretty knowledgeable about these things 

[lookout]

I thought it was only Sheila who was connected to the Jay family?

By birth Maggie,but it's a strange coincidence that JB's birth mother should work for the then chaplain who we know to have been Sheila's grandfather.

[Jane]

By birth Maggie,but it's a strange coincidence that JB's birth mother should work for the then chaplain who we know to have been Sheila's grandfather.

Where does your information come from, Lookout? Are you saying that Sheila and Jeremy were related prior to adoption? And why would a student midwife be working for a cleric?

[lookout]

Where does your information come from, Lookout? Are you saying that Sheila and Jeremy were related prior to adoption? And why would a student midwife be working for a cleric?

Not related,but connected to the Jay family-------Sheila by birth and Jeremy's birth mother by employment to the Jays.

[Jane]

Not related,but connected to the Jay family-------Sheila by birth and Jeremy's birth mother by employment to the Jays.

Employed in what capacity? She was a 23 yr old student midwife at the time of Jeremy's birth -might he have completed nursing training- and was still studying midwifery when she married Jeremy's father 18 months later.

[lookout]

She was the daughter of the senior chaplain to Eric Jay when he was the Archbishop of Canterbury.

[Jane]

She was the daughter of the senior chaplain to Eric Jay when he was the Archbishop of Canterbury.

THAT WAS CHRISTINE JAY, SHEILA'S MOTHER. SHE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH JULIET WHEELER WHO WAS JEREMY'S MOTHER!!!!

[lookout]

THAT WAS CHRISTINE JAY, SHEILA'S MOTHER. SHE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH JULIET WHEELER WHO WAS JEREMY'S MOTHER!!!!

No need to shout as it's not me who's got mixed up. 

[Jane]

No need to shout as it's not me who's got mixed up.

It most certainly seems to be.

[lookout]

It most certainly seems to be.

No,it's what I foolishly repeated as does happen when you misinterpret something. However the rest of the said blog is eye-opening.