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Offline Steve_uk

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #45 on: October 19, 2017, 11:24:PM »
FFS
You make it so obvious Jeremy is innocent, you keep defending your mate Mugford but time is running out for all the liars here
Even those who believe Jeremy guilty do not excuse Julie's behaviour: her silence was difficult to justify and the News of the World pictures were a disgrace. But I'm afraid there's far more to this case, if only the Jeremy supporters could see it.

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #46 on: October 20, 2017, 08:41:AM »
Forced to by who?
You mean 'Forced by whom'.
She was forced by the situation to confess to the cheque fraud. She was forced by Liz Rimmington to go to the police after making sensational claims to her friends. She was forced by the reality that her career would be left in tatters if she didn't make a deal.

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #47 on: October 20, 2017, 08:50:AM »
You mean 'Forced by whom'.
She was forced by the situation to confess to the cheque fraud. She was forced by Liz Rimmington to go to the police after making sensational claims to her friends. She was forced by the reality that her career would be left in tatters if she didn't make a deal.

Who or whom, it's fine either way

Where is your evidence for these claims lebaleb

Her teaching career would not have been left in tatters - you are exaggerating

When you and others recognise that JM was responsible for her own actions and recognise the fact she had choices and STOP blaming everyone else - you might just start to see the wood through the trees

Why not talk about Bambers indiscretions - as per the title of this thread

Why does he say the campaign team control him, for example - you've read his letters

Why does he tell lie after lie

Why is he obsessed with money

Why does he blame everyone else but himself

Why is he incapable of taking ANY responsibility

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #48 on: October 20, 2017, 08:55:AM »
I think JB probably does trust the CT.

I agree anyone can be conned.  I have not been conned in this instance.  I have an inquiring and challenging approach to cases such as this.

The internet enables more people to become aware of potential MOJs.

You know he doesn't trust the campaign team. And look how's he treated Mike, Jackie, Aunt Agatha, Daisy et al...

You have been conned NGB and appear to be in denial

I too have an inquiring and challenging approach, as do many others

Why didn't the police prosecute Simon Halls mother for example

Why did the police drop the sexual elememt theme and go for a burglary gone wrong motive



« Last Edit: October 20, 2017, 09:00:AM by Stephanie »
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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #49 on: October 20, 2017, 09:26:AM »
Who or whom, it's fine either way

Where is your evidence for these claims lebaleb

Her teaching career would not have been left in tatters - you are exaggerating

When you and others recognise that JM was responsible for her own actions and recognise the fact she had choices and STOP blaming everyone else - you might just start to see the wood through the trees

Why not talk about Bambers indiscretions - as per the title of this thread

Why does he say the campaign team control him, for example - you've read his letters

Why does he tell lie after lie

Why is he obsessed with money

Why does he blame everyone else but himself

Why is he incapable of taking ANY responsibility

Because he is innocent.

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #50 on: October 20, 2017, 09:50:AM »
Because he is innocent.

Classic answer.

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #51 on: October 20, 2017, 09:52:AM »
Because he is innocent.

Maybe you need to familiarise yourself with normal human behaviour

The reason he is incapable of EVER taking responsibility for his actions is quite clearly due to a stunt in his emotional growth as some point during his early years
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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #52 on: October 20, 2017, 09:55:AM »
Classic answer.

Ill thought out

Or no thought at all
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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #53 on: October 20, 2017, 10:18:AM »
Ill thought out

Or no thought at all

I suspect the exact opposite.

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #54 on: October 20, 2017, 10:22:AM »
I suspect the exact opposite.

Do you drink funky mushroom tea for breakfast Roch  ;D
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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #55 on: October 20, 2017, 10:37:AM »
Do you drink funky mushroom tea for breakfast Roch  ;D

Not since the early 90's  :))

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #56 on: October 20, 2017, 10:52:AM »
It was JB who was used as a scapegoat for everyone else's shortcomings.!!

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #57 on: October 20, 2017, 11:36:AM »
Classic answer.

Predictable answer.
Few people have the imagination for reality

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #58 on: October 20, 2017, 02:18:PM »
Both Sheila and Jeremy were connected  in some way to the Jay families. ?
Jeremy's birth mother is the daughter of the then chaplain to Eric Jay.
Sheila's birth mother is the daughter of one of the Jays.

How peculiar ?

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Re: Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings
« Reply #59 on: October 20, 2017, 02:29:PM »
Both Sheila and Jeremy were connected  in some way to the Jay families. ?
Jeremy's birth mother is the daughter of the then chaplain to Eric Jay.
Sheila's birth mother is the daughter of one of the Jays.

How peculiar ?

I thought Eric Jay was Sheila's grandfather/Christine's father, who was one of the officiating clerics at the Coronation. She also had an uncle who was a cleric. With such a family background it seems somewhat unusual for their daughter to end up in domestic service -albeit, royal.