Nobody with any heart could not fail to be moved by what may be his last ever interview on the case. He has a genuine insight into this story and its major protagonists, and it's clear to me that though June might not have caused Sheila's schizophrenia her condition was exacerbated every time she spent time in her mother's company. The irony was that by the end there had been an improvement in relations between the two as June relented somewhat: she was making arrangements for an allowance for her daughter to be paid quarterly, Sheila had, after all, been bought a flat in London, which would not have happened without June's approval and she seemed to be given free rein there. I could imagine the Bambers also paying for the boys' private education and wishing to see more of them during the school holidays involving longer stays at the Farm in the future.
Nobody really knows what pertains in a marriage apart from the two who are in it. Sheila was ill and needed help. Colin may have been unprepared fo the onslaughts he faced and immature in having a fling when the opportunity presented itself. I'm unconvinced of these so-called "alternative cures" for what is undoubtedly a serious mental illness. But he grew into the part: he kept on amicable terms with her and her parents and shouldered the responsibilities of parenthood exceptionally well when the full implications of her illness became clear.
Let’s deal with the violence and affairs that Sheila had to deal with. That breaks my heart.
Mental health statistics: domestic violence
Some 1.2 million women and 700,000 men experience domestic violence each year, according to the Office for National Statistics.1
However, these figures relate only for official reports of violence, with the real figure likely to be much higher. The effect on survivors' mental health is profound and obvious.
Domestic violence has an estimated overall cost to mental healthcare of £176 million.2
Research suggests that women experienceing domestic abuse are more likely to experience a mental health problem, while women with mental health problems are more likely to be domestically abused, with 30-60% of women with a mental health problem having experienced domestic violence.3
Domestic violence is associated with depression, anxiety, PTSD and substance abuse in the general population.4
Exposure to domestic violence has a significant impact on children's mental health. Many studies have found strong links with poorer educational outcomes and higher levels of mental health problems.5