Is Jeremy Bamber Bisexual?

[Romeo]

If he is then could this have affected his relationship with his religious parents. Could this be why he hated Gresham's Boarding School.....Brett Collins stated JB was abused at school when 11 years old. ...and went on to blame his parents and have Gay affairs.  If JB is bisexual, and hadn't 'come out' could he have become depressed at not being able to lead his life the way he wanted to?? Clare Powell's book tells us after the murders JB dressed up in his dead sisters clothes.

[David1819]

It's possible. But I doubt it.

I find these things of insignificant value in the grand scheme of things.

However the rumor of being raped at Greshams should be looked into. Because if it's true it's very unlikely that Jeremy would be the only victim. This was in the era of Jimmy Saville and MPs in pedophile rings etc.

[Romeo]

I agree David in the 1980's child abuse seems to have been rife!

I also wonder how this could affect a young lad in the future i.e. blaming his parents for sending him away etc. JB was against anything his parents suggested...for instance..JB had proposed to JM but when his parents suggested he get married, he told JM the engagement was off.  Perhaps JB kept his bisexual tendencies a secret from them, and this built up causing him to act the way he did. JB seems to have had a grudge against his sister as well.... selling her modelling photos soon after her death....changing his hair colouring to match JM's which he had done once before when JM changed her hair colour. JB seems a very confused man to me.

[nugnug]

the family suspected he was for some reason.

[lookout]

Totally irrelevant. It's like saying that all those who are have got issues.

[lookout]

In fact you could go on and on with this argument about different foibles,etc of the general public.
All it is is picking for pickings sake to justify your argument as proof of his guilt.

[maggie]

It's possible. But I doubt it.

I find these things of insignificant value in the grand scheme of things.

However the rumor of being raped at Greshams should be looked into. Because if it's true it's very unlikely that Jeremy would be the only victim. This was in the era of Jimmy Saville and MPs in pedophile rings etc.

I agree David, I cannot see how JBs sexuality proves his guilt or innocence imo.
As far as I am aware cross dressing bears no relation to being gay and most transvestites are not gay. 

[nugnug]

were did they allegation about the scholl come from it might require a thread of its own.

[lookout]

If JB himself didn't mention or speak about it then I don't know who did to be honest. I don't know.

[nugnug]

thats the mystory to me as well i mean who else would know other than him and as far as i know hes never mentioned ity himself.

[Romeo]

were did they allegation about the scholl come from it might require a thread of its own.

It came from Claire Powells book.....Brett Collins said it.

[Romeo]

In fact you could go on and on with this argument about different foibles,etc of the general public.
All it is is picking for pickings sake to justify your argument as proof of his guilt.

Lookout.... You have gone on and on about Sheila's illness being the reason that she 'supposedly' had psychotic episode and killed all the family because that suits your claims that Jeremy Bamber is innocent, yet if anyone else says anything against JB it isn't possible because he was just an innocent lad! Time you took those blinkers off and saw him for the person he was/is.

I put the question above because I wondered if JB had issues with his sexual preferences hence causing him to feel an outcast within the family.....I wasn't generalising that every bisexual has problems....far from it!

[nugnug]

why would being bisexual couse him to shot his family.

[Romeo]

why would being bisexual couse him to shot his family.

Actually Nugnug, I was thinking more of Brett Collins being involved more than is known. Did he have anything over JB from his trips to New Zealand etc? They were very close JB and BC.

Regarding shooting his family.... it was obviously for the money, and this could have involved BC'. Was JB under pressure from BC? If JB was bisexual did BC threaten him with exposure of photos to the family..... ? Both BC and JB were quick in trying to sell photos of Sheila after her death. I wonder what influence BC had over JB?

[guest7363]

Actually Nugnug, I was thinking more of Brett Collins being involved more than is known. Did he have anything over JB from his trips to New Zealand etc? They were very close JB and BC.

Regarding shooting his family.... it was obviously for the money, and this could have involved BC'. Was JB under pressure from BC? If JB was bisexual did BC threaten him with exposure of photos to the family..... ? Both BC and JB were quick in trying to sell photos of Sheila after her death. I wonder what influence BC had over JB?

Some great points there Romeo, I have always wondered and said Brett Collins knows a lot more about this case, like you said they were great friends, anyone who travels that sort of distance to meet and be together could have a bonding relationship.  Strange when things went pear shaped for Bamber how his chum vanished, not only vanished but stayed silent and didn't offer much defence for his chum?