I simply made a factual inference. The housekeeper claimed June would soak clothing in buckets and leave them in the laundry area. She said Sheila would leave her panties in the kitchen soaking though. Sheila's panties were soaking in the kitchen. Next to them were children's pants soaking. The logical inference is Sheila not only soaked her panties but the pant since June would leave such in the laundry area if she had soaked them.
I also pointed out that Jeremy complained that Sheila took the boys to visit him as he was using the tractor. his shows she at least spent some time with them on the farm. Thus saying she spent no time with them at all and totally ignored them fully doesn't work.
We don't know how much time she spent with them at WHF but it makes little difference she did obviously spend some and obviously had some interest in them not none at all.
And who said she didn't? I never said she didn't spend SOME time with them. I allowed for the time she was seen skipping with them. Actually, I'm doing what you do. I'm listening to the evidence of those who knew her best. You are making a play of what you don't know to make something out of it. I'm using what I do know, part of which is this, a girl as low in spirits as Sheila wasn't suddenly going to turn into a bright ray of sunshine when she was trapped in a place she didn't want to be. A girl whose children have to live with their father because of her inability to cope isn't miraculously going to become Mother of the year. You DISREGARD what those said who knew her, even her mother's words "she has no interest in anything including the children."
As for you "for the moment dealing with my ignorance and lack of knowledge" it's clearly something which you're practised at coping with as you appear the believe that everyone who isn't you is ignorant, stupid or a liar. You seem not to like that you can't say exactly what she did at the farm, presumably it would give you more leverage with which to feed your rather unhealthy need to be right at other's expense. You really are a very xxxxx,xxxxxxxx xxxxxx man.