I only saved a small snippet when we were debating the buckets months ago. Mike posted it somewhere but it was in the middle of a thread I think and no one had the foresight to add it to the archive index, oops...
I believe that she said when June soaked clothes in them she left it by the washing machine or the sink in the back kitchen. Sheila was the one who soaked things in the kitchen
So you have found a line saying that June's knickers had never been seen soaking in the kitchen. I should think NOT, indeed. MOST inappropriate.........................but I wasn't speaking of knickers, June's or Sheila's, I was speaking about the boy's dirty trousers -still small enough to be soaked in buckets- or rather,YOU were. You were using it -that SHEILA had soaked them- as a way of pointing out that I was making assumptions about her state of mind and her relationship with her mother. For one accusing another of making assumptions about weeks of certain behaviours and a life times relationship, YOU are making assumptions based one one -POSSIBLE- act.
Just to set the record straight, Sheila's good friend Tora, says of her, that she had become so unkempt she smelled!!!! She had holes in her tights. Here hair wasn't washed. Her make up was a mess IF she bothered to wear it. I could go on..................This is a girl who seemed to define herself by her looks. A girl who asked, constantly, "Do I look pretty?" A girl to whom it mattered what others thought of her.
At the party, she ignored -all(?)- the children. Took no notice of their games. One of the twins climbed onto her lap. She made no attempt at interaction. Three days later, her mother says "She has no interest in anything including the children"........................but it seems that NONE of them knew what they were talking about, who were with her, because the Great All Knowing Scipio decrees that she wasn't depressed and the POSSIBLE act of soaking her children's trousers -let's not forget that over the three days she was there, ONE person saw her skipping with the children- denotes that there was nothing wrong with her mothering skills.
I believe she was depressed -her life circumstances suggest there was every reason for her to be so- but I don't believe she was responsible for anyone's deaths.You appear to be saying/ believe she was overdosed with one med and/or underdosed with another. Sounds more to me like someone who is keeping their options open and determined to win an argument at any cost. Ethics seem not to apply.