What 20 year old is going to imagine the man of her dreams isn't going to stay with her. There's no doubt that he was out to impress. On their first date -FIRST DATE!!!- he introduced her to his parents. That's big time serious. Men don't usually introduce girls to their parents unless they have something more than bed in mind. So she saw what Jeremy, as the heir, was likely to inherit and I guess she wanted to be part of it. What's with your concern regarding her doing degrees. Plenty do them with no intention of using them to get careers. To some it's a hobby.
Unlikely, had Jeremy taken over from his father, that they'd have stayed in the cottage.
I think that what she saw in the way of house, properties, land and social standing would have meant more to Julie than money alone.
Jeremy may have done poorly at Gresham's but the point is, he WENT to Gresham's.
You do a hell of a lot of "Yeh, but's" when it comes to Julie's relationship with Jeremy but she FANCIED him, Adam, and I guess she thought they were in it for the long haul. Like the girl proudly told the world from the pages of NOTW "He taught me sex like I'd never known"
Supporters that have turned to guilters still have it for Julie. Caroline calling her a cow and saying she was just as greedy as Bamber. Maggie saying she was not naive and Susan saying she was hard. You said you have never liked her after seeing her and MM's court outfits.
It was a simple, normal relationship. Nothing sinister. Until Bamber killed his family and dragged Julie into 30+ years of abuse and stress.
They met at Sloppy Joe's and dated for 18 months. Both working. Julie studying for her second degree and wanting to be a teacher. June offered to buy Julie a house. Julie declined. To suggest Julie was with a farm labourer just for his potential in 20 years is fanciful.
Bamber testified the relationship started coming to a close during the six months leading up to the massacre. Although he still trusted her enough to involve her in the caravan break in and massacre plans.
At 20 and 24, they both had plenty of time to date, or be single once the inevitable spilt happened. At only 20 it is doubtful Julie was looking for a rich man to look after her. Teachers can make a good living and she obviously enjoyed it.
Julie was living in digs in Lewisham. Her life suddenly changed for ever after Bamber whisked her over to WHF after the massacre. Before she could catch breath she was being taken all over England as well as to Amsterdam on jolly ups . Before telling five people what she knew and approaching the police, after one month.
But the xxxx xxxxxx on here will always believe Julie was just with Bamber for the money.