My uncle only went in for a couple of nights respite because his wife was in hospital as well - he ended up being in for 8 weeks ( bed blocking) as they could not get help organised at home . When he did get it then they have been coping quite well . But I was as one point given 5 different contacts to try and get it sorted and the departments did not seem to be talking to each other.
And I would say if you need help when they get home then Age UK have been great - in fact Social services said don't even bother to fill in attendance allowance forms as they are too complicated - get Age UK to do it.
Also as soon as I put my worries in writing people soon jumped in to help - including their GP

My relatives have become quite dependant on me - in fact the other day they called us because a new telly we had got them was not working - they had tried all the leads etc and plugs. So we drove 45 mins to be there to find my uncle asleep - my auntie, who suffers I think from Dementia said "the TV is broke" - I said "I know you called us that's why we are here".
We walked in - my uncle was asleep and the TV was on and blaring out . It had come back on and my auntie had not heard it because she is deaf. It was an aerial problem

then I got told off because I had asked my aunties doctor about a memory test result - my auntie said I should not interfere- but she had told me she had had a memory test so I was checking the result - Now she says she has never had a memory test . I am not sure who is more confused - her or me?
