During the time that Sheila started going " downhill ",the family,including Jeremy,had discussed moving Sheila to " take over "Jeremys house in Goldhanger to be nearer to WHF so that everyone,including Jeremy, could help her and the twins.
There was NEVER any mention of Jeremy either objecting to this arrangement,nor being jealous in any way of any attention given to Sheila and her boys. It seemed that EVERYONE,including Jeremy again,were trying to do their utmost in helping Sheila,who was having none of it,and chose to live/stay at Maida Vale nearer to the night-life of London.