So Jeremy definitely was the " macho " character,,enabling things to go over his head,,rather than them to sit in a corner of his brain,festering,,as poor Sheila did.
I obviously don't know JB personally but from everything I've read in the public domain and my letter contact with him I wouldn't describe JB as "macho". As I said JB was not at such a disadvantage as SC as he did not suffer multiple and abrupt changes in primary caregivers and the potential for neglect.
It would appear that with JB's birth father being an army sergeant/major and promoted to a senior position within the Buck palace household that be was somewhat of a strong character. This is one of the reasons Patti and myself are keen to identify SC's birth father ie to build up a complete picture in terms of family background, character type, mental illness etc