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Offline Roch

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #210 on: August 25, 2012, 12:32:PM »

Dear everyone,
I have been recovering from an illness for the past 7 weeks and don't understand what has been going on with the forum.
Please will someone P.M me and explain.
I would be sad if the forum closed down and hope so much that Mike decides to keep it going.
I have hardly posted much for ages but check in when I am feeling well enough to.
Lets find a way to keep Mike's great forum going!
Summer ???

I hope you are feeling better Summer.  :)

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #211 on: August 25, 2012, 02:38:PM »
Brief synopsis. Few days ago, Graham desparate to become moderator again so pm'd Mike requesting this, completely behind the backs of ngb and roch who were told nothing. Graham reappointed by Mike. Within minutes he let back in previous posters such as Jackie Preece, Stephanie Hall etc. Graham then declared that he would right all wrong and continually undermined Roch (and by his appearance ngb).

Roch then ngb both resigned their moderator jobs as they had both been completely undermined by graham.

Forum descended into chaos with poisonous posts from a number of people esp Jackie and Stephanie. They apparently dont give a fuck about JB or his case, but would rather bitch.

For some reason not sure if removed or he saw sense, shortly after his takeover, Graham once again quit the forum.

Ngb and Roch reappointed mods and Roch immediately banned jackie and Steph.

Forum returning to some normality with healthy debate. QED

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I think that Grahame may have been pushed in to acting because of the photograph of his mum that appeared elsewhere.  I think Grahame was incensed by this and had already expressed on repeated occasions, views relating to members with dual accounts, i.e. over both forums.  Jackie Preece was alread registered as Elliehickman, prior to Grahame taking action.  It's just that she had not yet openly posted in a way that would confirm her ID.  In the case of Steph Hall, I think she re-registered and when I tried to ban her, I found that I could not, due to a technical reason.  If I had thought this through a bit more carefully i think the technicality could have been overcome and she would not have got on to the forum.

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #212 on: August 25, 2012, 03:01:PM »
I think that Grahame may have been pushed in to acting because of the photograph of his mum that appeared elsewhere.  I think Grahame was incensed by this and had already expressed on repeated occasions, views relating to members with dual accounts, i.e. over both forums.  Jackie Preece was alread registered as Elliehickman, prior to Grahame taking action.  It's just that she had not yet openly posted in a way that would confirm her ID.  In the case of Steph Hall, I think she re-registered and when I tried to ban her, I found that I could not, due to a technical reason.  If I had thought this through a bit more carefully i think the technicality could have been overcome and she would not have got on to the forum.

Views in the cold light of day.
I think that is a true assessment Roch from what I saw that evening.  I think posting up photos of anyone's 90 year old mother with smutty inuendo is off limits and beyond the joke whoever she is related to. 

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #213 on: August 25, 2012, 03:11:PM »
I think that is a true assessment Roch from what I saw that evening.  I think posting up photos of anyone's 90 year old mother with smutty inuendo is off limits and beyond the joke whoever she is related to.
you get your answers maggie, simply vile filth who need to be sectioned as they represent a danger to the public.

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #214 on: August 25, 2012, 04:34:PM »
I think that Grahame may have been pushed in to acting because of the photograph of his mum that appeared elsewhere.  I think Grahame was incensed by this and had already expressed on repeated occasions, views relating to members with dual accounts, i.e. over both forums.  Jackie Preece was alread registered as Elliehickman, prior to Grahame taking action.  It's just that she had not yet openly posted in a way that would confirm her ID.  In the case of Steph Hall, I think she re-registered and when I tried to ban her, I found that I could not, due to a technical reason.  If I had thought this through a bit more carefully i think the technicality could have been overcome and she would not have got on to the forum.

Views in the cold light of day.

Grahame has contacted me and asked me to post his account of what happened.  Grahame is no longer a member and is therefore not able to post himself, so I am happy to comply with his request.

As Roch has suggested, Grahame was understandably very upset that anyone could sink so low as to post a photograph of his mother.  He felt that he had to do something about it and he asked to be appointed as a moderator only in order to be able to take action against those associated with the abuse directed at his family.  Grahame had no intention of undermining anyone and did not think there would be any problem.  He did not let Jackie and Stephanie Hall in, they were both already registered (Jackie as Ellie Hickman) when he was appointed as moderator.  He was not acting in concert with Jackie.  He did not impose any bans during the period between being appointed and deleting his account.  Grahame says that he very much regrets what happened.

I do think it is important to remember that Grahame has been experiencing a very tough time.  Not only is he still very worried about the health of his daughter Jo, but he is not in good health himself.  I am sure that we all wish Grahame well and hope that both he and Jo make a speedy recovery.

       
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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #215 on: August 25, 2012, 04:47:PM »
Grahame has contacted me and asked me to post his account of what happened.  Grahame is no longer a member and is therefore not able to post himself, so am am happy to comply with his request.

As Roch has suggested, Grahame was understandably very upset that anyone could sink so low as to post a photograph of his mother.  He felt that he had to do something about it and he asked to be appointed as a moderator only in order to be able to take action against those associated with the abuse directed at his family.  Grahame had no intention of undermining anyone and did not think there would be any problem.  He did not let Jackie and Stephanie Hall in, they were both already registered (Jackie as Ellie Hickman) when he was appointed as moderator.  He was not acting in concert with Jackie.  He did not impose any bans during the period between being appointed and deleting his account.  Grahame says that he very much regrets what happened.

I do think it is important to remember that Grahame has been experiencing a very tough time.  Not only is he still very worried about the health of his daughter Jo, but he is not in good health himself.  I am sure that we all wish Grahame well and hope that both he and Jo make a speedy recovery.

     
I think Grahame's treatment by the red forum has been totally disgraceful.  For myself it wasn't a matter of being a person's friend,  but rather a matter of seeing injustice and real unkindness and refusing to accept any part of such behaviour. I don't know Grahame very well but he has always struck me as a really good man with a great deal to cope with.  I wish him and his family well and hope that there will be light at the end of the tunnel soon.  All the very best grahame. :)

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #216 on: August 25, 2012, 04:57:PM »
Yes I agree With your sentiments. The problem was his aggresive attacks on Roch, which did not further his cause. I have no doubt that Grahame is an honourable man, but on this occasion stepped over the mark.

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #217 on: August 25, 2012, 05:00:PM »
Grahame has contacted me and asked me to post his account of what happened.  Grahame is no longer a member and is therefore not able to post himself, so am am happy to comply with his request.

As Roch has suggested, Grahame was understandably very upset that anyone could sink so low as to post a photograph of his mother.  He felt that he had to do something about it and he asked to be appointed as a moderator only in order to be able to take action against those associated with the abuse directed at his family.  Grahame had no intention of undermining anyone and did not think there would be any problem.  He did not let Jackie and Stephanie Hall in, they were both already registered (Jackie as Ellie Hickman) when he was appointed as moderator.  He was not acting in concert with Jackie.  He did not impose any bans during the period between being appointed and deleting his account.  Grahame says that he very much regrets what happened.

I do think it is important to remember that Grahame has been experiencing a very tough time.  Not only is he still very worried about the health of his daughter Jo, but he is not in good health himself.  I am sure that we all wish Grahame well and hope that both he and Jo make a speedy recovery.

     


Grahame, is you should read this, I'd like you to know how very sorry I am that things have turned out this way. NOBODY should have had to go through what you have and if those responsible had a conscience the would feel ashamed. You were always one of a group of people I felt I could trust and you never let me down. I send my warmest thoughts to you and your family and pray that all will be well for you all. xx

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #218 on: August 25, 2012, 05:23:PM »
Grahame  I too am deeply sorry about the recent events and always felt you to be rock solid and always gave me sound advice plus you really made me laugh.  I send my warmest wishes to you and your family and I was so sorry to see you leave the forum. :(

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #219 on: August 25, 2012, 05:36:PM »
He is like the terminator. He will be back.

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #220 on: August 25, 2012, 05:38:PM »
He is like the terminator. He will be back.
;D ;D ;D ;D

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #221 on: August 25, 2012, 05:41:PM »
He is like the terminator. He will be back.


.......And I'm certain he'll be given a warm welcome........providing there's somewhere for him to come back to :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #222 on: August 25, 2012, 05:49:PM »

.......And I'm certain he'll be given a warm welcome........providing there's somewhere for him to come back to :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
i want your boots your clothes and your motorcycle

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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #223 on: August 25, 2012, 05:53:PM »
i want your boots your clothes and your motorcycle
;D ;DHey, Mertol, How is Dallas going, have you started the new series yet?
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Re: Mike deciding to shut down the forum
« Reply #224 on: August 25, 2012, 05:54:PM »
i want your boots your clothes and your motorcycle


I'd just LOVE to see you in them!!! :P :P :P :P :) :) :) :)