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Offline Kaldin

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Re: Jeremy Bamber proven innocent?
« Reply #705 on: November 04, 2019, 09:32:PM »

Who knows why she didn't? The best answer I can give is that she was in denial and remained so until she discovered he was seeing another woman. I think it's highly likely that had he married her she may have kept her mouth shut................until he had his first affair? I've said that she probably went through a gamut of emotions -she probably went through a whole lot of thoughts, not least of which would have been how to make it come right for her.

That last bit is about right.

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« Reply #706 on: November 04, 2019, 09:32:PM »

Well, as I've never stolen a lollipop from anywhere I wouldn't know what feeling guilty of it is like. Julie didn't commit those murders, and remember, I don't think Jeremy EVER admitted that he had. He SAID he'd paid someone else. I'd suggest she really, REALLY wanted that to be true.
but the police initially concluded that Shelia had gone " beserk " and committed the murders. If she was armed with info from Jeremy Bamber that he paid a mercenary to do it. Why did she not tell the police?
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Re: Jeremy Bamber proven innocent?
« Reply #707 on: November 04, 2019, 09:35:PM »
She knew Colin didn't she? How could she let him think that his ex wife had done it? He must have been full of guilt himself.


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« Reply #708 on: November 04, 2019, 09:35:PM »
how can you be in denial if the person has told you what he is intending to do and then that very night it happens,????


Because somewhere deep down she suspected he may have and didn't want to?

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« Reply #709 on: November 04, 2019, 09:39:PM »
but the police initially concluded that Shelia had gone " beserk " and committed the murders. If she was armed with info from Jeremy Bamber that he paid a mercenary to do it. Why did she not tell the police?


The police didn't need to conclude. Jeremy told them that his father had said it. I guess she was in a shall I/shan't I place.

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« Reply #710 on: November 04, 2019, 09:42:PM »
And when he tells you afterwards that he had them killed?
exactly, take guilt or innocence out of the equation for a second. Look at it from a common sense prospective. " I have been on the tractor all day thinking , tonight's the night it is going to happen ," if Jeremy Bamber had spoke these words to his partner the night. Hours before the killings. And even if he said he had paid a mercenary. Julie would be able to contradict his later claim ( and the SIO claim ) that Shelia had committed the murders. Armed with this information the police would have been on Jeremy Bambers case from day one.
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Re: Jeremy Bamber proven innocent?
« Reply #711 on: November 04, 2019, 09:43:PM »
She knew Colin didn't she? How could she let him think that his ex wife had done it? He must have been full of guilt himself.

Julie explains why she didn't come forward earlier - in her statement(s)
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« Reply #712 on: November 04, 2019, 09:43:PM »
She knew Colin didn't she? How could she let him think that his ex wife had done it? He must have been full of guilt himself.


Didn't Colin say in his book that he'd had a private conversation with her? He never revealed what had been said.

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« Reply #713 on: November 04, 2019, 09:44:PM »

The police didn't need to conclude. Jeremy told them that his father had said it. I guess she was in a shall I/shan't I place.
shall I shan't I?? It's not a " who stole the shepards pie from the fridge scenario love, we are discussing five murders ....
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« Reply #714 on: November 04, 2019, 09:46:PM »
shall I shan't I?? It's not a " who stole the shepards pie from the fridge scenario love, we are discussing five murders ....

We certainly are!
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« Reply #715 on: November 04, 2019, 09:48:PM »
Like I said. She didn't WANT to believe he'd done it so when Jeremy said MM had done it, she didn't HAVE to believe it

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« Reply #716 on: November 04, 2019, 09:50:PM »
Julie explains why she didn't come forward earlier - in her statement(s)
absolute load of bollocks. It would rip to shreds a normal humans moral compass. Even if she thought she would face legal proceedings why did she continue to sleep with him Caroline ???
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« Reply #717 on: November 04, 2019, 09:52:PM »
exactly, take guilt or innocence out of the equation for a second. Look at it from a common sense prospective. " I have been on the tractor all day thinking , tonight's the night it is going to happen ," if Jeremy Bamber had spoke these words to his partner the night. Hours before the killings. And even if he said he had paid a mercenary. Julie would be able to contradict his later claim ( and the SIO claim ) that Shelia had committed the murders. Armed with this information the police would have been on Jeremy Bambers case from day one.


By the time Julie arrived, Jeremy had stuffed them full of Sheila's insanity and gun competency. It was a feasible enough story. It fitted in with the tableau in WHF.

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« Reply #718 on: November 04, 2019, 09:55:PM »

By the time Julie arrived, Jeremy had stuffed them full of Sheila's insanity and gun competency. It was a feasible enough story. It fitted in with the tableau in WHF.
this is laughable. If a person told you some hours previously that they planned to do their family in. And then lo and behold that does occur. Would you not be just the tiniest bit suspicious of them ?
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« Reply #719 on: November 04, 2019, 10:00:PM »
this is laughable. If a person told you some hours previously that they planned to do their family in. And then lo and behold that does occur. Would you not be just the tiniest bit suspicious of them ?


It would certainly seem coincidental...................but then, I'm not a 20 year old who's in love with a man who will give me a better life than the one I've previously had.