Why does Jeremy Bamber repeatedly blame others for his shortcomings

[Stephanie]

"A person who won’t acknowledge his or her bad choices and bad habits and repeatedly blames others for his shortcomings will never correct his erroneous thinking or behavior. Whenever he plays the blame game, you know the disturbed character has no intentions of changing his ways. Habitually blaming others for his own indiscretions is a principal way the disturbed character resists modifying his problematic attitudes and behavior patterns. https://counsellingresource.com/features/2009/02/27/blame-game/

[Stephanie]

Jeremy Bamber blames everyone and anyone for his shortcomings and has done for 33 years.

Nowhere have I ever seen him take responsibility for anything, EVER

"The tactic goes hand in hand with the tactic of portraying oneself as a victim


I've come to the conclusion the reason he always blames others Is in order to relieve his own sense of guilt


JM did not do this; her witness statements are evidence of this and show she took responsibility for her wrong doings

Whilst some members are quick to attempt to blame and shame her for her actions, they fail to recognise the strength of her evidence and indeed the type of character she was

JM took responsibility, Bamber did not

Jeremy Bamber BLAMED his families indiscretions as being behind the motive behind why he burgled the family run caravan site

NEVER once did he apologise EVER for the error of his ways

[lebaleb]

Jeremy Bamber blames everyone and anyone for his shortcomings and has done for 33 years.

Nowhere have I ever seen him take responsibility for anything, EVER

"The tactic goes hand in hand with the tactic of portraying oneself as a victim


I've come to the conclusion the reason he always blames others Is in order to relieve his own sense of guilt


JM did not do this; her witness statements are evidence of this and show she took responsibility for her wrong doings

Whilst some members are quick to attempt to blame and shame her for her actions, they fail to recognise the strength of her evidence and indeed the type of character she was

JM only confessed because she was forced to. In order to save herself from prosecution she made a deal. She knew the truth would come out.

[lookout]

Correct,lebaleb.

[Stephanie]

JM only confessed because she was forced to. In order to save herself from prosecution she made a deal. She knew the truth would come out.

Confessed about what

To what are you referring when you say "JM only confessed"


Your argument is nothing more than a myth Bamber has created in order to keep up his farce

However if you really believe this nonsense

Tell me:

What punishment would JM received in relation to the cheque book fraud etc

[Stephanie]

JM only confessed because she was forced to. In order to save herself from prosecution she made a deal. She knew the truth would come out.

The truth would come out about what exactly

Please don't tell me you are referring to the cheque book fraud

It came out in her witness statement

It was ALREADY out

[Caroline]

JM only confessed because she was forced to. In order to save herself from prosecution she made a deal. She knew the truth would come out.

Forced to by who?

[Stephanie]

And so the blame game continues

It's always someone else's fault - Jeremy Bamber must be an alien from another planet because in the real world NO ONE is perfect

Those that are openly supporting him have created an illusion of him in their minds

Never have I heard a negative word said about him - it's always someelses fault

[Caroline]

And so the blame game continues

It's always someone else's fault - Jeremy Bamber must be an alien from another planet because in the real world NO ONE is perfect

Those that are openly supporting him have created an illusion of him in their minds

Never have I heard a negative word said about him - it's always someelses fault

And he never has a bad word to day about anyone! 

[Stephanie]

His blogs like this sicken me - they are manufactured to play on the emotions of others



Jeremy's 56th Birthday, 13th January
When I think about all the birthdays I have spent in prison, I remember receiving some of the best gifts anyone can give.  The prison has always had very strict policies about what is allowed in and in recent years restrictions have grown even tighter. What sometimes amazes me is how people work around these difficulties to share the most amazing things with me. One lady many years ago bought me a star for my birthday, others send wonderful drawings and paintings and many send photos from holidays or of their gardens in bloom. I love sharing all of these things with my friends and supporters, the people who take those moments to share a part of themselves with me.

Personal memories are the best kinds of gifts shared, many people write with their happy recollections of events, it might be a marriage or a birth or the day they passed their driving test or got their degree. Others allow me glimpses into their every day life chatting as you would over coffee and expressing their woes, or just sharing the events of the day, moans about the latest parking fine they just received or details of their new shoes. Some debate over moving house or worry about relocating from the city to the country and sometimes I can allay fears over living in the rural but quiet and picturesque villages or homesteads.

I receive often very emotional letters from people who have lost family members in tragic circumstances or they have a sister, mother or child suffering from a serious mental illness. I share in their concerns; offer words of comfort and strength and most of all hope. Some friends write letters from all over the world while they travel or from where they live. Many are ex-pats and others of many different nationalities and it touches me that they are so far away and yet have heard about my wrongful imprisonment, which has moved them to write kind, supportive words and send a birthday greeting.

Strangers confide their loneliness, a feeling that is often all too real in prison, and I identify with the way they reach out to me baring so many emotions. People talk about pain, illness and suffering and in sharing together we find a salve. And soon strangers become friends; they share the laughter in their lives, the comedy in their relationships.

Friends pen their hopes and dreams for the future and talk about what we will do together once I’m on the outside. I’m looking forward to sharing so many of the things you write about in person. All your conversations in cards, letters and emails are welcome. So the next time you write a simple card to me, or offer words of comfort and strength, remember how much I appreciate these gifts even though they’re simple words, they’re so much more than that to me.


Jeremy
Posted by Jeremy Bamber at Friday, January 13, 2017




Maybe his supporters have forgotten about the letters posted here on this forum about what he actually thinks about this behaviour

[Stephanie]

Now read this http://jeremybamberforum.co.uk/index.php/topic,908.0.html

[Stephanie]

And he never has a bad word to day about anyone! 

I know for a fact Bamber has slated the CT no end

He's terrified of them and reckons they control him 

The fact is, they are terrified of him and he controls them

It's time he was exposed for the con man and mass murderer he is

[Stephanie]

His blogs like this sicken me - they are manufactured to play on the emotions of others



Jeremy's 56th Birthday, 13th January
When I think about all the birthdays I have spent in prison, I remember receiving some of the best gifts anyone can give.  The prison has always had very strict policies about what is allowed in and in recent years restrictions have grown even tighter. What sometimes amazes me is how people work around these difficulties to share the most amazing things with me. One lady many years ago bought me a star for my birthday, others send wonderful drawings and paintings and many send photos from holidays or of their gardens in bloom. I love sharing all of these things with my friends and supporters, the people who take those moments to share a part of themselves with me.

Personal memories are the best kinds of gifts shared, many people write with their happy recollections of events, it might be a marriage or a birth or the day they passed their driving test or got their degree. Others allow me glimpses into their every day life chatting as you would over coffee and expressing their woes, or just sharing the events of the day, moans about the latest parking fine they just received or details of their new shoes. Some debate over moving house or worry about relocating from the city to the country and sometimes I can allay fears over living in the rural but quiet and picturesque villages or homesteads.

I receive often very emotional letters from people who have lost family members in tragic circumstances or they have a sister, mother or child suffering from a serious mental illness. I share in their concerns; offer words of comfort and strength and most of all hope. Some friends write letters from all over the world while they travel or from where they live. Many are ex-pats and others of many different nationalities and it touches me that they are so far away and yet have heard about my wrongful imprisonment, which has moved them to write kind, supportive words and send a birthday greeting.

Strangers confide their loneliness, a feeling that is often all too real in prison, and I identify with the way they reach out to me baring so many emotions. People talk about pain, illness and suffering and in sharing together we find a salve. And soon strangers become friends; they share the laughter in their lives, the comedy in their relationships.

Friends pen their hopes and dreams for the future and talk about what we will do together once I’m on the outside. I’m looking forward to sharing so many of the things you write about in person. All your conversations in cards, letters and emails are welcome. So the next time you write a simple card to me, or offer words of comfort and strength, remember how much I appreciate these gifts even though they’re simple words, they’re so much more than that to me.


Jeremy
Posted by Jeremy Bamber at Friday, January 13, 2017




Maybe his supporters have forgotten about the letters posted here on this forum about what he actually thinks about this behaviour

Jeremy Bamber stated;

"Helpful to a bereaved person much like any councellor can be so long as it's about a few comforting words

Bamber states the above is "100% bollocks in other words meaningless

[Stephanie]

"The words of psychopathic murderers match their personalities, which reflect selfishness, detachment from their crimes and emotional flatness http://earthsky.org/human-world/text-analysis-reveals-word-patterns-of-psychopaths

[Stephanie]

I know for a fact Bamber has slated the CT no end

He's terrified of them and reckons they control him 

The fact is, they are terrified of him and he controls them

It's time he was exposed for the con man and mass murderer he is

The campaigns fault for why he's still in prison - not his fault EVER