Here we go again------imagination running amok 
Jeremy Bamber received a life sentence for murder, hardly my imagination.
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Abusers who groom their victims often claim to have a special connection with the abused. The so- called connection might be emotional, intellectual, sexual, spiritual, or all of the above.
This is often backed up by the predator echoing back part of the target's own background or story, altered to fit the groomer’s back-story, in order to confirm the connection. Not only did JB groom JM, he groomed many others and continues to do so.In order to abuse or exploit another person without fear of discovery, a sexual predator or con artist will frequently condition their intended victim to keep secrets for them. And we all know what secret JB had hoped JM would keep for him. When building this bond of trust, an abuser may share seemingly personal or private information,
and then swear the victim to secrecy. The victim is made to believe that they are being trusted with something of value, before being asked to share something of value with his/her abuser.Abusers use shared secrets to bind their victims to them. By degrees, the target is gradually lured in to revealing private information, giving up money, property or sexual favors,
or permitting /engaging in inappropriate, unsafe, or illegal behaviors. • The victim is often drawn in to being a "co-conspirator” (also known as forced teaming) with his or her abuser. As can be seen by JM disclosures to police.Eventually, the bond of secrecy is nearly always reinforced with threats, shaming and guilt to keep the victim silent about his or her shared crimes or misdeeds. JM put a stop to this when she came clean to the police."Predators work in the shadows, and have something to hide.
Predators claim to feel a "special connection" with their targets, even if they've only just met. This can be seen with all those who have had contact with Bamber.
Predators recruit co-conspirators (forced teaming) to fight their battles and do their bidding. The CT, Trudi, etc
Predators draw their victims in by sharing private information then swearing them to secrecy. If a person wants to keep a secret; they tell no one that secret. But Jeremy Bamber has a habit of sharing private information and swearing others to secrecy. His behaviour is not only classic, it's see through
Predators practice divide and conquer techniques in order to manipulate others.Again, classic behaviour of Jeremy Bamber.Examples of Grooming:An individual who lures lonely or vulnerable people into a romantic relationship in order to position themselves for monetary gain.
An adult in a position of authority who uses their status to entice minor children into engaging in sexual activity.
Anyone who manufactures a (false) bond of trust in order to extract promises or favors from another.The victim finds themselves willingly handing over money or assets, engaging in inappropriate, illegal or morally ambiguous actives, or acting as a proxy for the abuser, fighting the abuser’s battles, and carrying out their will. This is exactly what happened to Julie Mugford. The victim often feels confusion, shame, guilt, remorse and disgust at his or her own participation. Equally powerful, is the panic that comes with the threat of being exposed for engaging these activities. There may also an overwhelming fear of losing the emotional bond that has been established with an abuser. The victim becomes trapped, depressed or despondent. It's likely JM felt some or all of these emotions. And there's no doubt the police recognised this at the time.
