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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #75 on: August 02, 2014, 07:21:PM »
Alias I have read some of them and I think if posters. took no notice he would stop doing it.  He maybe provoking a reaction and he is getting it.  That is all I can say really as I am comfortable on the forum and it is sad some posters are not and should not allow one poster to upset them.

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #76 on: August 02, 2014, 07:37:PM »
Alias I have read some of them and I think if posters. took no notice he would stop doing it.  He maybe provoking a reaction and he is getting it.  That is all I can say really as I am comfortable on the forum and it is sad some posters are not and should not allow one poster to upset them.
He's a troll.

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #77 on: August 02, 2014, 08:27:PM »
jansus  it is a pity you feel he has lowered the tone of the forum we have in my short time on here had worse than scipio  :'( he gets insulted back and never complains it is common place to him.I think he is a "wind up" merchant.

The nature of the insults is why I am so threatening.

Most of the ones lobbed against me don't really matter.  Sticks and stones will break my bones but names will never hurt me.

My "insults" are posts that take apart their positions and revela they have no evidentiary foundation for the things they assert.  In some instances I demonstrate they are being dishonest.  I don't simply say you are being dishonest I explain why they are being dishonest and evidence to support my position.

Grahame posts so many things demonstrating he is a Jeremy supporter including today claiming it is a fact that Jeremy, "DID  talk to his father half an hour before police arrived on the scene".  Yet he dishonestly suggests he is neutral and not a Jeremy supporter and attacks anyone who dares to call him out and with rare exception that usually is me.

There is a saying "ignorance is bliss".  But tha tis not the full saying the rest is typically forgotten. The full saying is actually, "Where ignorance is bliss, 'tis folly to be wise".  What it means is that if you disturb the willfull ignorance of others you are putting yourself in the danger zone.

So suffering through attacks goes with the territory.  I have to expect such attacks and simply roll with the punches.

For me this is not personal because I follow the evidence and facts.  People living in willful ignorance choose their position for personal reasons and thus the whole debate is personal to them.

While you have asserted you thought Jeremy is innocent in the past you admitted that you are unsure what to think for certain at the moment because many of the things your rthought to be the case ende dup not being so.  Your position is not set in stone you are willing to change your position if evidence demonstrates you should. 

While I changed your mind about some things I have not changed them about everything.  Some of the things I changed your mind about were nonthreatening to you because you are not dead set on Jeremy being innocent.  Those same things undermined what some people want to believe and that to them is a very personal affront.

I basically taunt them to prove me wrong but they can't and that angers and frustrates them.  They don't want to change their minds though so attack me and then still repeat the same disproved claims.

Of course I am generalizing because on certain issues some Jeremy supporters are willing to budge.  It varies which issue they won't budge on and which ones won't budge at all.  The 2 with the least knowledge of the facts are Mike's strongest supporters. Mike takes his knowledge and tries to twist it instead of being upfront and honest.  He does this especially with the COLP investigation pretending they found wrongdowing though they did not.  Since that has stopped working for him I don't really understand why he doesn't stop and join in the conversations with the rest of us but only he knows his motives...

The rapport I have is usually set by how others act and the nature of what they post.  You have not posted anything redicilous or biased so that is why we have not engaged in any squabbles and you don't make things personal like some others do.  So even though we don't agree on everything it doesn't matter.

But if you ever so post something totally outrageous and silly I promise to ask you what the heck were you thinking. 
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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #78 on: August 02, 2014, 08:47:PM »
Don´t fool yourself, scipio. Calling people stupid, fools, pathetic, liars, Bamberettes, ignorant and on and on, doesn´t equal refuting claims in a knowledgable way.
You are undermining your own mission here - I gladly skip your long posts if I am not in the mood for your shitloads of infantile insults. I know that others do too.

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #79 on: August 02, 2014, 08:58:PM »
Ha Ha Scipio if you attack me I will just kick your ass ;D  Having been on the forum some 2 years I was always of the mind that Jeremy Bamber was innocent but of late I read posts from the opposing sides and I am now of a mind he is infact guilty.  For the first time I now look at matters in a realistic way and see so many issues I am not comfortable with and I am now convinced all is not what I thought it was.  Many of my friends on here are guilty supporters and many are innocent but a difference of opinion should not change a friendship if it does the friendship was not worth having.  I rest my case,

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #80 on: August 02, 2014, 09:18:PM »
Scipio, you are very mistaken if you believe that words don't wound. Hurtful words leave much deeper scars than physical wounds as many on this forum can attest.
 
You can't say it isn't personal because you follow evidence and facts. If that's all you do there is no need for the personal insults you resort to whenever someone posts something which in your opinion is wrong. If some people choose to live in what you call blissful ignorance, so be it. It's no skin off your nose.

"The rapport I have is usually set by what others say and the nature of their post" If that statement isn't responsible for making your insults personal, I don't know what is.

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #81 on: August 02, 2014, 09:27:PM »
Scipio, you are very mistaken if you believe that words don't wound. Hurtful words leave much deeper scars than physical wounds as many on this forum can attest.
 
You can't say it isn't personal because you follow evidence and facts. If that's all you do there is no need for the personal insults you resort to whenever someone posts something which in your opinion is wrong. If some people choose to live in what you call blissful ignorance, so be it. It's no skin off your nose.

"The rapport I have is usually set by what others say and the nature of their post" If that statement isn't responsible for making your insults personal, I don't know what is.

Words wound when people let them wound and take them to heart and people take them to heart when they hit too close to home and cause them to face something they would rather not face otherwise when they are overly sensitive and take anything and everything to hear because of insecurity and ego issues.

Those who do so for the latter reason would benefit from counseling because it is not healthy to be that way.  The former are like a horse that has been led to water they can either take advantage and drink or chose not to drink and be angry they have been led there.



 

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #82 on: August 02, 2014, 09:39:PM »
Words wound when people let them wound and take them to heart and people take them to heart when they hit too close to home and cause them to face something they would rather not face otherwise when they are overly sensitive and take anything and everything to hear because of insecurity and ego issues.

Those who do so for the latter reason would benefit from counseling because it is not healthy to be that way.  The former are like a horse that has been led to water they can either take advantage and drink or chose not to drink and be angry they have been led there.


So are you saying that all those years I spent training were wasted and all I needed to tell all those poor damaged souls, who were crippled by word which had been said in  their childhood, was that it was their own fault for being over sensitive and taking it to heart. My belief is, Scipio, that nothing is said for nothing, ergo, wounding words are said with the intention of wounding.

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #83 on: August 02, 2014, 09:43:PM »
Thing about cyber bullying is this: you don´t know who is at the other end. If you saw the person eye to eye, you would get an impression of the state of mind of that individual. You can´t here. The person you call stupid just might have been through horrendous let-downs in real life, and you mocking him/her was the last straw....
Cyber bullying has resulted in suicides: just words. You have no idea how vulnerable the person on the receiving end is.
Cyber feuds have resulted in murders.
You can´t just dismiss it as "words". Shows your immaturity and lack of insight.

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #84 on: August 02, 2014, 09:44:PM »
 He's an uneducated lout !

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #85 on: August 02, 2014, 10:30:PM »
Thing about cyber bullying is this: you don´t know who is at the other end. If you saw the person eye to eye, you would get an impression of the state of mind of that individual. You can´t here. The person you call stupid just might have been through horrendous let-downs in real life, and you mocking him/her was the last straw....
Cyber bullying has resulted in suicides: just words. You have no idea how vulnerable the person on the receiving end is.
Cyber feuds have resulted in murders.
You can´t just dismiss it as "words". Shows your immaturity and lack of insight.

Very good post Alias.

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #86 on: August 02, 2014, 10:37:PM »
Don´t fool yourself, scipio. Calling people stupid, fools, pathetic, liars, Bamberettes, ignorant and on and on, doesn´t equal refuting claims in a knowledgable way.
You are undermining your own mission here - I gladly skip your long posts if I am not in the mood for your shitloads of infantile insults. I know that others do too.
Alias as you can see his post is littered with half truths of what I have actually said or have ever acknowledged. A half truth is more damaging that a downright lie.
eg: I have never said that Jeremy actually did say he phoned his father. What I said was that "according to Jeremy" he received a phone call.
See how it works Alias. Look for half truths from him rather than downright lies. Let him be the one who claims everyone else is a liar and a hypocrite and not any of us.

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #87 on: August 02, 2014, 10:46:PM »
Scipio, you are very mistaken if you believe that words don't wound. Hurtful words leave much deeper scars than physical wounds as many on this forum can attest.
 
You can't say it isn't personal because you follow evidence and facts. If that's all you do there is no need for the personal insults you resort to whenever someone posts something which in your opinion is wrong. If some people choose to live in what you call blissful ignorance, so be it. It's no skin off your nose.

"The rapport I have is usually set by what others say and the nature of their post" If that statement isn't responsible for making your insults personal, I don't know what is.
Words are more damaging to reputations and the careers of people than any gun or missile. Sticks and stones may break your nones. But words can actually kill people. Just look at the recent suicides by those who have been the victims of bullies on the internet.

So scipio is wrong. Words can kill. That is why I am concerned about the members of this forum even though susan doesn't seem to be? And this is the one reason I speak to this excuse for a man the way I do. Not because I can't prove his arguments are wrong. Quite frankly I'm never embarassed by such things. It's a forum for goodness sake.

I treat him the way I do because I know who he is and what he is. He says he isn't worried about being insulted. But the very reason he objects to it shows he does. He is also terrified that people will even dare to contradict him. Now I don't know about anyone else? But that to me is an indication of paranoia?

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #88 on: August 02, 2014, 11:18:PM »
back to the book.

Well it is a bit weird  it just disappears after a while - after comments about mike and Jeremys falling out.

So really I can come to no conclusion at all .

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Re: Private Communications, between "David Shaw" and "Mike Tesko" (2006)
« Reply #89 on: August 03, 2014, 01:46:AM »
Alias as you can see his post is littered with half truths of what I have actually said or have ever acknowledged. A half truth is more damaging that a downright lie.
eg: I have never said that Jeremy actually did say he phoned his father. What I said was that "according to Jeremy" he received a phone call.
See how it works Alias. Look for half truths from him rather than downright lies. Let him be the one who claims everyone else is a liar and a hypocrite and not any of us.

You are distorting again how funny and sad you are at the same time.  You didn't say anything about according to Jeremy he received a call you wrote:

"Erm.....He DID  talk to his father half an hour before police arrived on the scene."

If you mean he claimed he talked to his father then you messed up big time and should have admitted it after people called your post out.  I saw it well after you posted it and you had not retracted it.  Now you are apparently trying to revise the meaning.

If that was your intended meaning your post makes little sense and I don't know why you told Caroline she was wrong.
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