It obviously suited Julie at the time to think of all the " jokes/jests/phrases " from the past,when clearly that's what they were,but those jokes/jests and phrases are easily turned into something sinister to fit an occasion which is what happened. They were conveniently twisted. No doubt Jeremy DID say half of what she said he did,but certainly not in a meaningful way which she'd have been fully aware of at the time,and what she said in court WAS the truth,but the meaning was entirely different then.