Lookout, you spent last night creating a Jeremy who had grown up never having to take responsibility for his own actions. We had June baking his favourite cakes and still wiping his bottom whilst Nevill did most of the hard work that Jeremy should have been doing AND put his guns away after he'd used them. This all went to the creation of an individual who, when told that said gun had been responsible for the deaths of his family, basically shrugged it off with "I didn't know what was going to happen, did I?" Perhaps you should read up on the type of adult who can develop from a child who's never had to take responsibility for their actions. They go through life blaming others/getting others to do it for them....................just as Jeremy has done
On the contrary Jane,there are some who wear of being " smothered " and long to find their own ways in life,such as Jeremy did when he set up his own home.
My own brother was treated just the same by our mum,she did everything for him and he felt stifled.Something that mum could never understand " after all she'd done for him,etc etc ",to which I'd told her " serves you right ". Needless to say mum never got on with brother's wife,much the same as June was toward both Colin and JM.
Anyhow,my own personal view of the other spectrum of mothers and sons,I remember talking to a cop a few years ago about " this breed of men ",they either end up gay or criminals.That's my version of " men who live with their mums ". Strange as it may seem,I've been proved right many a time,as when you have the criminal element in some,you'll find that the mother invariably states that " her son wouldn't do anything like that ".I've known a few in my time,and even the police can bear me out on that one too.
Indeed,my brother like Jeremy escaped the apron strings of " mother " and broke away from the fetch me-carry me situation.