April are you saying that you believe Jackie might be guilty of writing the letter simply because she is not your friend? Or am I guilty of not reading your post correctly? 
Patti, this thread seems to have created paranoia in everybody

I think, that because of what passed between them and was subsequently aired on this forum, Jackie has placed herself in a very difficult position.
It's quite plain, from the wording of the correspondence, that it was she who made the first approach to PH, NOT as she would have us believe, he approaching her out of the blue. WHY WOULD HE? Surely then, one would have to be totally naive if it didn't cross one's mind that if she was capable of one little "fib" she COULD be capable of a second. Had she kept her mouth shut and NOT mentioned the first incident -I can only think that the temptation to brag overcame common sense- we wouldn't have been able to link it to what subsequently happened.
As I said, Grahame is a loyal friend of Jackie. SOME of us have been subjected to a Jackie who is quite OTHER than the one Grahame knows, a Jackie who slams with blind fury and without proof into ANYONE who she believes has gone against Jeremy. Of COURSE we're going to see it differently. Do you REALLY believe I'd suggest her capable of writing such a letter because she's not my friend?