Yes but when Jeremy wanted children of his own Suzette either genuinely had miscarriages or was not pregnant in the first place. This was another turning point as Jeremy drifted into a vacuum at an age where many men would be frightened of being tied down.
There seem to be a lot of ulterior motives involved in this whole affair: Jeremy going through the motions of farming to please his parents,Jeremy attending the party to discover when the twins would be arriving at the Farm,Colin inviting Jeremy to the party so Jeremy might bring up with his parents a different treatment for Sheila,and Sheila herself going to White House reluctantly again out of monetary considerations.
I know there's not one model for families but this one did seem particularly dysfunctional.
Hi Steve_uk
I was not aware of CC asking JB to broach the subject of SC's mental health treatment with NB and June? According to CC's book he states that he and SC thought her treatment needed changing (although he doesn't elaborate how) and that he was to raise the matter with NB and June when dropping SC and the twins off at WHF for what was sadly to be the last time

However he does not follow through on his promise to SC and devotes quite a few words describing how guilty he felt about yet again letting SC down. It strikes me that CC was perhaps a little intimidated by NB and June? For example he drafted a letter intended for NB but for whatever reason(s) didn't send it and didn't follow through on the above either?
CC's letter intended for NB but not senthttp://jeremybamberforum.co.uk/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=1482.0;attach=7232Excerpt From Colin Caffell's Book"One of the most striking things about that day, although not altogether surprising for me, was the fact that, the more I talked to June and Nevill's relations, the more I realised none of them actually knew anything had been seriously wrong with Bambs - not even June's sister Pam. Many of them said that had they known, they would have been more than willing to help and share the burden. Why hadn't I contacted them and told them all about it? I couldn't believe what I was hearing and could only reply by saying that I didn't feel it had been my business to betray the Bamber's confidence. They were very private people whose decisions I had to respect - whether right or wrong.
These people had no idea how much I'd need them as allies to convince June and Nevill of how strongly I felt Bamb's treatment should have been changed".I think the way in which 'closed' adoptions were socially engineered during the so-called 'Baby Scoop Era' put these families at risk of dysfuntion. Imo June's mental illness and religious mania put the Bamber family at additional risk.