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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1665 on: October 11, 2013, 08:29:PM »
Patti I know what you mean it is so so sad.  I watched Ben Needham's Mother being interviewed and she is still looking for Ben 22 years on I really felt for her as she had no help at all from the police or the media she was out on her own.  She has of late had some help. He was such an adorable little boy.
Cannot imagine how it must feel for your child to be taken and never know if he's alive or dead, happy or frightened and sad.
I know some may say mothers forced by circumstances to give up their babies for adoption suffered a similar fate and I am aware of that which is why I have always believed they had a right to know their children were at least well and happy.

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1666 on: October 11, 2013, 08:31:PM »
It would be fantastic if Maddie is found safe and well,but was wondering how she would reintegrate back into her family who would effectively be strangers to her? I'm certain she would undergo counselling etc,but finding her,wonderful as it would be,opens up a whole new set of circumstances.

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1667 on: October 11, 2013, 08:35:PM »
It would be fantastic if Maddie is found safe and well,but was wondering how she would reintegrate back into her family who would effectively be strangers to her? I'm certain she would undergo counselling etc,but finding her,wonderful as it would be,opens up a whole new set of circumstances.
You are right tyler, if she is with a new family and happy, maybe speaking a different language it would be dreadfully traumatic for all of them.  However, I would think just knowing she was safe and happy would be amazing for the McCanns. :( :(

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1668 on: October 11, 2013, 08:41:PM »
Hello Maggie I think it will be quite traumatic for a Mother who has to give her child up for adoption and it will be a comfort to her knowing her child is happy and being well cared for but not knowing would be torture.

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1669 on: October 11, 2013, 08:46:PM »
another qustion there was a baby sitting service so how did the abductor know the McCanns wernt using it.
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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1670 on: October 11, 2013, 08:47:PM »
Hello Maggie I think it will be quite traumatic for a Mother who has to give her child up for adoption and it will be a comfort to her knowing her child is happy and being well cared for but not knowing would be torture.
Very true Susie, so difficult for those mother's.  :(

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1671 on: October 11, 2013, 08:53:PM »
Cannot imagine how it must feel for your child to be taken and never know if he's alive or dead, happy or frightened and sad.
I know some may say mothers forced by circumstances to give up their babies for adoption suffered a similar fate and I am aware of that which is why I have always believed they had a right to know their children were at least well and happy.

Hi Maggie neither can I. The sheer thought of it makes my heart sink....

I've just been reading a true life story about a little girl who's mother died.  The girl was 12 and had to look after her 3 younger brothers and a baby sister.  Their father was right B******d

When her mother died in the front room, he made his little girl kiss her on her mouth and it frightened her to death.  He used to wake her up in the night and accuse her of murdering her mother, he shine a torch in her face and drag her out of bed by the hair, along the corridor and into the kitchen, where he would beat her.....while in a drunken temper.  On the Christmas Eve, he gave his children 15 shillings to go shopping for Christmas.  They bought a tree and some trimmings and gifts for their father and each other.  The little girl did all the hard work, to the shops, take the baby to nursery, bath the children, fetch the coal and take the laundry.....He even made he have her cat put down, but she let it escape, but it came home, so he beat her and slashed her fingers with a knife....he was a cruel sod.  Anyway, back to Christmas eve, he came home drunk and again he fetched her out of bed and bust her nose open, blacked her eyes, kicked her in the back.....she could not move till after the 1st week in January and he even put her presents in the coal shed so she could not have them....

Eventually, a social worker must have found out about the cruelty and when the little girl came home with the baby all the suitcases were packed....The SW told her that the 3 boys were going away for a while and the baby was going somewhere else....The little girl wondered what was to become of her whilst her nasty father was ill.......She kissed the boys bye bye and then kissed the baby and they rubbed noses and away she went.....Then suddenly the girl realised they were not coming back and she ran after the baby but they had gone....she ran and ran and screamed after her little sister.....

Sad to say she spent the next 4 years in care and at 16 she married and had 3 children, but the marriage failed and she found herself homeless.  But, a stroke of luck happened and she met and married an architect and now lives in Scotland.....She wrote a sequel to the book I have read this week....but tonight I found this....and It made me cry....and realise how lucky I am....Its a really sad story.  :'(

http://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/author-pleads-burglar-return-locket-2021801

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1672 on: October 11, 2013, 09:06:PM »
Hi Maggie neither can I. The sheer thought of it makes my heart sink....

I've just been reading a true life story about a little girl who's mother died.  The girl was 12 and had to look after her 3 younger brothers and a baby sister.  Their father was right B******d

When her mother died in the front room, he made his little girl kiss her on her mouth and it frightened her to death.  He used to wake her up in the night and accuse her of murdering her mother, he shine a torch in her face and drag her out of bed by the hair, along the corridor and into the kitchen, where he would beat her.....while in a drunken temper.  On the Christmas Eve, he gave his children 15 shillings to go shopping for Christmas.  They bought a tree and some trimmings and gifts for their father and each other.  The little girl did all the hard work, to the shops, take the baby to nursery, bath the children, fetch the coal and take the laundry.....He even made he have her cat put down, but she let it escape, but it came home, so he beat her and slashed her fingers with a knife....he was a cruel sod.  Anyway, back to Christmas eve, he came home drunk and again he fetched her out of bed and bust her nose open, blacked her eyes, kicked her in the back.....she could not move till after the 1st week in January and he even put her presents in the coal shed so she could not have them....

Eventually, a social worker must have found out about the cruelty and when the little girl came home with the baby all the suitcases were packed....The SW told her that the 3 boys were going away for a while and the baby was going somewhere else....The little girl wondered what was to become of her whilst her nasty father was ill.......She kissed the boys bye bye and then kissed the baby and they rubbed noses and away she went.....Then suddenly the girl realised they were not coming back and she ran after the baby but they had gone....she ran and ran and screamed after her little sister.....

Sad to say she spent the next 4 years in care and at 16 she married and had 3 children, but the marriage failed and she found herself homeless.  But, a stroke of luck happened and she met and married an architect and now lives in Scotland.....She wrote a sequel to the book I have read this week....but tonight I found this....and It made me cry....and realise how lucky I am....Its a really sad story.  :'(

http://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/author-pleads-burglar-return-locket-2021801
Can't bear it Patti, I try to not read stuff like that, too harrowing.  :'( :'(

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1673 on: October 13, 2013, 12:35:AM »
If alive,I still believe Maddie is in Morocco. Just a gut feeling.

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1674 on: October 13, 2013, 12:38:AM »
untill he see proof shes dead ill continue to believe shes alive.

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1676 on: October 13, 2013, 01:26:PM »
http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/madeleine-mccann-british-man-arrested-2366183

Wow, I just hope that this, if Maddie is indeed alive, will not jeapardize whatever level of safety she has in her situation!

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1677 on: October 13, 2013, 01:40:PM »
It just shows how behind our reporting is.I posted this on the 6th of this month out of an Australian newspaper.

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1678 on: October 13, 2013, 01:50:PM »
It just shows how behind our reporting is.I posted this on the 6th of this month out of an Australian newspaper.




So if anyone wants news first hand,,go to News.Au. They're 24 hours ahead of us anyway. Read tomorrows news,today. ;D

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Re: The case of Madeleine McCann
« Reply #1679 on: October 13, 2013, 03:50:PM »
It just shows how behind our reporting is.I posted this on the 6th of this month out of an Australian newspaper.

Sorry Lookout must have missed your post... :(

Alias do you live in Holland? I can't remember....if so its going to be covered there and Germany.  :) :)