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Offline Roch

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1605 on: August 20, 2018, 10:31:PM »
There is no understanding on Jeremy's side for Colin's loss. To me, Colin is the ONLY living victim and Jeremy's lack of empathy towards Colin just makes him sound more guilty.

Jeremy's real or perceived lack of empathy seems to have contributed to his downfall.  However I believe it to be a cursed circumstance for him in this case, rather than an indicator of involvement. 

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1606 on: August 20, 2018, 10:33:PM »
Sheila, once married to Colin, happened to have been Jeremy's sister who he thought a lot of.
So work that out-------to Caroline.
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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1607 on: August 20, 2018, 10:34:PM »
Jeremy's real or perceived lack of empathy seems to have contributed to his downfall.  However I believe it to be a cursed circumstance for him in this case, rather than an indicator of involvement.
Why was he so evasive during Police interrogation irrespective of whether you believe him innocent or guilty?

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1608 on: August 20, 2018, 10:36:PM »
Jeremy would possibly have felt that Colin let his sister down.Hence Jeremy's cool attitude towards him.

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« Reply #1609 on: August 20, 2018, 10:40:PM »
Jeremy would possibly have felt that Colin let his sister down.Hence Jeremy's cool attitude towards him.

He didn't feel he'd let SHEILA down. Jeremy's letter to Colin was about JEREMY. HE felt he'd been let down by Colin, he was aghast at the lack of support from Colin. Read the letter, Steve kindly posted.

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1610 on: August 20, 2018, 10:41:PM »
He didn't feel he'd let SHEILA down. Jeremy's letter to Colin was about JEREMY. HE felt he'd been let down by Colin, he was aghast at the lack of support from Colin. Read the letter, Steve kindly posted.






My post was in answer to Caroline's !

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1611 on: August 20, 2018, 11:06:PM »
Sheila, once married to Colin, happened to have been Jeremy's sister who he thought a lot of.
So work that out-------to Caroline.

How do you know what he thought of her?  ::)

He called her a nutter - so much love, so little time!
Few people have the imagination for reality

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1612 on: August 20, 2018, 11:09:PM »





My post was in answer to Caroline's !

And I agree with Mat.
Few people have the imagination for reality

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1613 on: August 20, 2018, 11:18:PM »
There is no understanding on Jeremy's side for Colin's loss. To me, Colin is the ONLY living victim and Jeremy's lack of empathy towards Colin just makes him sound more guilty.
Yes because looked at from Jeremy's point of view they had all gained financially at his expense. No thought whatsoever for the emotional loss of those concerned.

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1614 on: August 21, 2018, 01:37:AM »
Why was he so evasive during Police interrogation irrespective of whether you believe him innocent or guilty?
   Have you ever been questioned by the police, Steve? Anyone who has, could tell you why you may avoid questions or make no comment. This is true regardless of guilt or innocence. The police when interviewing you already believe you to be guilty or you wouldn't be there. You are very aware that the questioning is designed to trap you and this makes you cautious.
    Even if innocent this applies. A police interview is not some cosy friendly chat with tea and biscuits that you've popped along to because of the kind invite.
    If you are innocent,especially on such a serious charge, many would be even more guarded.
   

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1615 on: August 21, 2018, 06:33:AM »
Sheila, once married to Colin, happened to have been Jeremy's sister who he thought a lot of.
So work that out-------to Caroline.

He told police, outside WHF, "She doesn't like me and I don't like her".

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1616 on: August 21, 2018, 10:56:AM »
And I agree with Mat.






Naturally  ::)

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1617 on: August 21, 2018, 11:00:AM »
He told police, outside WHF, "She doesn't like me and I don't like her".






I didn't like my brother but that's not to say I would never have helped him if needed. It's a normal brother and sister thing.

Who was it who used to take Sheila home from parties ?

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1618 on: August 21, 2018, 11:09:AM »





I didn't like my brother but that's not to say I would never have helped him if needed. It's a normal brother and sister thing.

Who was it who used to take Sheila home from parties ?


Ha! So you reckon Jeremy used to high tail it to London every time Sheila went to a party? Get real, Lookout. As for back in the day when she lived at WHF, Jeremy would have been too young to go to parties with her, let alone drive her home.

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Re: Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath
« Reply #1619 on: August 21, 2018, 11:27:AM »

Ha! So you reckon Jeremy used to high tail it to London every time Sheila went to a party? Get real, Lookout. As for back in the day when she lived at WHF, Jeremy would have been too young to go to parties with her, let alone drive her home.





So he never drove her home from anywhere when Colin was too drunk to drive ? Your memory is duff.