Jeremy Bamber: the Prelude, the Tragedy and the Aftermath

[sami]

Speaking of viruses,I had notification this morning that an attempt to get into my mail had been averted.

Having not long set-up my new laptop ( a Christmas present ! ) I thought I'd be safe with all the gadgets giving me the security that's " obviously " needed. Doesn't take the swines long,does it ? However because I received the notification meant that whoever was trying,didn't succeed.

any thoughts on who it could be lookout,its not the 1st time its happened is it

[lookout]

any thoughts on who it could be lookout,its not the 1st time its happened is it

It's a London ISP.

[sami]

It's a London ISP.

get it traced and report it to police,but please be polite to them or they may not do anything

[lookout]

It's a London ISP.

Whether it can be traced to an address,I don't know,but I don't care so long as it's been blocked.

[David1819]

Maggie said all babies adopted suffer primal screams because they're separated from their natural mothers.  But she can't explain those accidentally swapped at birth.  Do they suffer primal screams?  Or babies that lose their mothers in childbirth, natural disasters, wars, famines, illness followed by death, accidents.   Do all these babies suffer primal screams?

I can confirm not all adoptees have primal screams

Source - Am adopted and no primal scream 

[sami]

Whether it can be traced to an address,I don't know,but I don't care so long as it's been blocked.

thats what a good security program can do,they tryed stealing my passwords once when i was logged on to barclaycard but were thwarted thanks to my anti spyware,

[maggie]

Maggie do any of us know where we come from?  Gods creatures, swamps, African Savana?

What about mothers who put their children in care homes?  How do these children feel?  What about mothers that allow their children to be abused by their partners.  I could go on and on.

You're too hung up on adoption Maggie and need to chll out about it all.

Actually Jackie, or is it Holly??, am sure it is Holly,  I'm only 'hung up' with the fact that you are an uninvited guest on here. 

Actually, that statement is not completely true because you must have had permission from the forum member allowing you to use their ID and account . 

As you are banned for life from this forum, I feel I have no choice but to close down the account you have been using.

[David1819]

How do adopted children really cope with the reality of trying to forgive a mother who,no matter how hard they try to understand the reasons and excuse her, in their minds  she rejected them? If that is coupled with feeling rejected in their adoptive home it is a very tough situation for them. imo

That's not how I see it at all. I'm grateful it was decided to put me up for adoption, My mother could not have looked after me properly and I have a much better life and upbringing as a result of her decision.

[lookout]

thats what a good security program can do,they tryed stealing my passwords once when i was logged on to barclaycard but were thwarted thanks to my anti spyware,

I won't bank online for that reason.

[sami]

I can confirm not all adoptees have primal screams

Source - Am adopted and no primal scream 

sorry to hear that david,hope its not affected you too badly in life.

[sami]

I won't bank online for that reason.

chilling to think someones trying to spy on you when you use the computer

[sami]

anyway,can someone tell me the story of the game jb said they played  at christmas when they were young,involving jb and sc distracting june so neville could pinch a mince pie,such innocent games

[lookout]

Hide and seek ?

[Jane]

That's not how I see it at all. I'm grateful it was decided to put me up for adoption, My mother could not have looked after me properly and I have a much better life and upbringing as a result of her decision.

That's wonderful, David. You and your adopted mother/parents were obviously able to form the sort of bond that many adopted children can only dream of. That alone, however, for some, may NOT silence the primal scream OR heal the wound.

[sami]

Hide and seek ?

oh thats it,is it.he certainly cant play it anymore cos half the country know where he is hiding 'in the nick'