I think Jeremy may well have played these kind of games along with practical jokes mentioned in the various books.Maybe that's why Julie found Jeremy so difficult to read.
My point is Steve, that Julie would have played these games with him. It's part of the fun. Foreplay, if you like and there's no point in playing the game alone. Unfortunately, when taken as soundbites, instead of sounding erotic, they can sound sinister..............rather like that soundbite you keep quoting, "I hate my F'ing parents", not nice, but supposing , before that sentence are word similar to "........and try as I might, I can't get it out of them what they're giving me. God, I.........."Not the words I might have used, but I never have been a 23 year old male trying to impress a mate.