One moment of your time please.

[guest154]

I've decided to leave the red forum. I thought that I was right to be in both places - but after speaking with Stephanie Hall - I guess you can say my eyes have been opened.

I don't want to be dragged into disputes or post somewhere where I am not sure who I am talking to.


I was warned off the red forum many, many times - and I should have listened. 

[Neil]

I've decided to leave the red forum. I thought that I was right to be in both places - but after speaking with Stephanie Hall - I guess you can say my eyes have been opened.

I don't want to be dragged into disputes or post somewhere where I am not sure who I am talking to.


I was warned off the red forum many, many times - and I should have listened. 

Better late than never!  You can't be that sure of who you're talking to here at the moment! :D

[guest154]

Better late than never!  You can't be that sure of who you're talking to here at the moment! :D

True! I spoke with both Stephanie and Jackie on the phone tonight. Stephanie is lovely, she's paranoid on the forums because of what she's been through but within about 10 seconds of talking to her I could sense that she was a genuine person.

Jackie - seemed nervous of me which I actually found a little heartbreaking. But she seemed nice too.

[Neil]

True! I spoke with both Stephanie and Jackie on the phone tonight. Stephanie is lovely, she's paranoid on the forums because of what she's been through but within about 10 seconds of talking to her I could sense that she was a genuine person.

Jackie - seemed nervous of me which I actually found a little heartbreaking. But she seemed nice too.

That's very interesting Mat.  Steph must have had a hellish time, fighting Simons cause and the last thing she needs is people deliberately causing trouble for her on these forums.  It's just vicious and plain nasty and there's no need for it.  If only you three had spoken months ago! 

How about calling Grahame now? :D. I suspect you'd like him also.


Have they managed to alter your views on John Lamberton?

[guest154]

How about calling Grahame now? :D. I suspect you'd like him also.

Let's not be silly now, Neil. 

[guest154]

I wish John no harm, or the red forum. Some of the people there were great people - Andrea is a nice lady. But I just felt trapped in the middle. If I had never gone to other forum I never would have fallen out with Stephanie and never would have considered her as a possible candidate as to who had been evil towards me.

Speaking with Stephanie I realised instantly how paranoid I'd become because of these forums and the time seemed right to step away from one of them.


As for the above post. Let me tell you - I promise you ALL I will NEVER EVER be a moderator here. I would never be asked and  if  I get asked  I will say NO!

[Neil]

Mat, do you now believe that someone other than Jackie was responsible for posting the photo?  You seemed so sure.

[guest154]

Mat, do you now believe that someone other than Jackie was responsible for posting the photo?  You seemed so sure.

I believe that whoever helped me 'uncover' it was Jackie - may have been mis-leading me intentionally because it wasn't Jackie. I could tell by her voice.

But I don't really want to talk about it, Neil. I feel a fool, I was mean to Jackie and Stephanie because of paranoia and downright anger. I was wrong.

[Neil]

I believe that whoever helped me 'uncover' it was Jackie - may have been mis-leading me intentionally because it wasn't Jackie. I could tell by her voice.

But I don't really want to talk about it, Neil. I feel a fool, I was mean to Jackie and Stephanie because of paranoia and downright anger. I was wrong.

Thanks Mat.  No need to feel foolish, it's impossible to know who is who sometimes.

Whilst on the subect, I presume that it is not you posting as A Mat on the red side at the moment!

[guest154]

Thanks Mat.  No need to feel foolish, it's impossible to know who is who sometimes.

Whilst on the subect, I presume that it is not you posting as A Mat on the red side at the moment!

Think my account was deleted. 

[Neil]

Think my account was deleted. 

Somebody, pretending to be you is posting under the name A-Mat.  He/she is saying that Steph and Jackie have "too much on you" and you have been forced to leave the forum.



Quote from: A-Mat. on Today at 10:19:13 PM
John you can check if this is really MAT or NOT.

They know too much. If I don't leave - if I do not leave - then they will reveal personal details I can not have. They know my families Facebook links. I NEED to leave don't WANT to.

[guest154]

Somebody, pretending to be you is posting under the name A-Mat.  He/she is saying that Steph and Jackie have "too much on you" and you have been forced to leave the forum.



Quote from: A-Mat. on Today at 10:19:13 PM
John you can check if this is really MAT or NOT.

They know too much. If I don't leave - if I do not leave - then they will reveal personal details I can not have. They know my families Facebook links. I NEED to leave don't WANT to.

 

[Neil]

[Neil]

wtf is going on

I have to be honest Lithium, what with your avatar and signature, you're beginning to give me the creeps!

[Neil]

Crikey - that's a bit Craigie like..... it seem to me like it's the loons v the loons on the red forum now then - all the jokers together...

Problem now - who is genuine and who isn't over here....

I'm now very confused.  I would have expected Mat to state categorically, that he is not A-Mat!