Hi ngb1066
Forgive me for bringing my grievance with regard to Mat onto the open forum but my integrity and honesty are being brought into question and many of the forum members I like and respect may start to have little doubts as to I am.Briefly what happened last night was Margot posted a post which was disgusting and crude implicating her myself and Mat. I sent Mat a pm telling him I was going to report the incident when a Mod was on the forum as I felt partially responsible for Mat being dragged into it as I had befriended Margot at the beginning but did raise my concerns about her to your goodself and Roch.The reply I got from Mat was words to the effect "no worries Jackie" I was in shock and thought he was joking. After pm's backwards and forwards he explained that a Mod he was very close to told him I was Jackie Preece but not to worry as my secret was safe with him as he did not want me banned but anyway the other two Mods know you are Jackie anyway. It is my opinion that any man who is willing to disclose information from a female in a private message is an out and out cad with no integrity or moral values at all it is just not done. As far as I am concerned Mat is just a nonentity and I want nothing from him but I do want my friends on the forum to know I am not a fake. It is of no consequence to me what he or the other forum think I am as they play no part in my life.
The only steps I can take to dispel these ridiculous rumours is to give you ngb my email address or failing that my home address as I do trust you implicitly and that will confirm to you that I am not Jackie Preece.
Failing that I would have to delete my account as I am not comfortable with members wondering who they are posting to.
I do apologise for bringing this onto the open form as I have no need for a pm as I have nothing at all to hide and if only people knew.
Thank you for taking time to read this post.
Regards
Susan Ingham
Maybe a PM would have been better?
To be fair, this isn't a new issue and you've played at least a small part in it yourself. Having had very little or no interaction with you on the forum, about three months ago you out of the blue, started sending me PM's asking if I thought you were Jackie, you may recall that I replied that I neither knew or cared, that reply remains current today.
Whatever Mats misdemeanours are, I think it's difficult for a complaint about people accusing you of being somebody else, to be taken too seriously when you bear in mind that you have in the past posted things such as:
Jackie have you noticed everytime you post up pops Susan with a reply agreeing with you within 30seconds how strange is that and other people have noticed this not just silly me.
I'm not sure you can play along one minute and then complain about it the next, well that's not true, clearly that's exactly what you are doing.
If you find all of this ridiculously petty and tiresome, then I don't think you are alone.
