On the memorial page of a local? paper, there are personal messages offering condolences to Julie and naming the children.
Yes I appreciate this. I've read the memorial page I think you are referring to. But is the reference to Julie, Julie nee Mugford who testified at JB's trial? I have no idea of the names of her children. As I said I was led to believe she had two sons not a son and a daughter.
To my eye the man in the image with JM connected to her UK visit/2002 appeal looks nothing like the image of the man on the memorial page even allowing for ageing. But afaik there's no evidence the man in the image connected to the 2002 appeal was JM's husband, is there? He might have been someone acting on her behalf in a professional capacity or a friend/member of her family?