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Offline Zoso

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Re: Who Removed The Cash (and credit cards?) From NB's Wallet?
« Reply #45 on: October 22, 2024, 12:23:AM »
From what I have gather he didn't have no interest in getting in touch with them pre massacre.

Albeit the Bambers and Marshams kept in touch for a number of years post his adoption.

I think when he realised he was pretty much on his own, he reached out. To be honest, I thought his bio parents reaction was pretty shitty.

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« Reply #46 on: October 22, 2024, 08:56:AM »
I think when he realised he was pretty much on his own, he reached out. To be honest, I thought his bio parents reaction was pretty shitty.

I have read the interview from his dad " horrible man " " there's never going to be any reuniting " etc etc.


I am shocked that after marrying and having two children they never attempted to reclaim him.

All I can gather is the illegitimacy of Jeremy must have stung both still.

Then again he had gone to a good family, Nevill and June were good people.

I would imagine that Jeremy's brother and sister have had lots of curiosity about him over the years. Only natural I suppose.


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Re: Who Removed The Cash (and credit cards?) From NB's Wallet?
« Reply #47 on: October 22, 2024, 11:31:AM »
I have read the interview from his dad " horrible man " " there's never going to be any reuniting " etc etc.


I am shocked that after marrying and having two children they never attempted to reclaim him.

All I can gather is the illegitimacy of Jeremy must have stung both still.

Then again he had gone to a good family, Nevill and June were good people.

I would imagine that Jeremy's brother and sister have had lots of curiosity about him over the years. Only natural I suppose.


The only thing I can say, by way of supporting them, is that when people, ie birth patent(s), 'sign on the dotted line' they're agreeing to relinquish the child, and all rights to it, to its new parents. That, back then, was a legal fact. It has nothing to do with the moral or emotional, and it's a fact that many grown up adopted children, in search of birth parents who may choose not to know them, are still having to face. Whether or not the answer they find is worth the search, only they can tell.

This is something JB, as an adopted child, would have faced. Certainly, there was a chance that they may have reached out, but an equal chance there'd have been rejection -perhaps guilt so deep -and rightly so! His illegitimacy was never his fault!- on their part, that they didn't feel they could face him? Their problem, though. Not his, but he wouldn't have understood that. His arrest and conviction would have been perfect justification for rejecting him a second time. After all, in their eyes, they'd done their best for him, hadn't they? He was no longer their responsibility..................I fail to see how his siblings aren't curious, though. It may be a question of waiting until their parents have gone before acting on it?

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Re: Who Removed The Cash (and credit cards?) From NB's Wallet?
« Reply #48 on: October 22, 2024, 01:24:PM »
Suppose the Marshams due to there circumstances are all about status.

Having a convicted murderer as a son is probably an embarrassment to them.
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Re: Who Removed The Cash (and credit cards?) From NB's Wallet?
« Reply #49 on: October 22, 2024, 01:25:PM »
Found some pictures of JBs dad from his army years. JB is the spit of him.

Are his parents still alive? They must be getting on in years now.
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Re: Who Removed The Cash (and credit cards?) From NB's Wallet?
« Reply #50 on: October 22, 2024, 01:33:PM »
Found some pictures of JBs dad from his army years. JB is the spit of him.

Are his parents still alive? They must be getting on in years now.


He was still at the Palace when Prince George was born, I think. There's a picture of him posting the official notice on the gates. I'm sure they must be well into their 80's by now.

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« Reply #51 on: October 22, 2024, 01:34:PM »
Suppose the Marshams due to there circumstances are all about status.

Having a convicted murderer as a son is probably an embarrassment to them.


Mmm! How good an ice-breaker would that announcement be?

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« Reply #52 on: October 22, 2024, 06:29:PM »
JB re-entered WHF for the first time, post murders, on 12th August.  Family members were present.  According to AE, during this visit JB sought out his father's wallet and noticed that the cash (£400 - £500) was missing along with the credit cards. 

If this is correct it sounds like a despicable act.
If stealing £500 is despicable what words do you have have for the cold-blooded murder of five?

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« Reply #53 on: October 22, 2024, 06:49:PM »
If stealing £500 is despicable what words do you have have for the cold-blooded murder of five?

Given I think the person responsible was mentally ill I would use the words sad and tragic. 
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Re: Who Removed The Cash (and credit cards?) From NB's Wallet?
« Reply #54 on: October 22, 2024, 06:59:PM »
Given I think the person responsible was mentally ill I would use the words sad and tragic.

Without stating the obvious as it stands Shelia Caffell is an innocent party and Jeremy Bamber is the cold blooded convicted murderer.

And until Bamber walks out of the COA with his fist raised in a victory salute it will remain that.
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Re: Who Removed The Cash (and credit cards?) From NB's Wallet?
« Reply #55 on: October 22, 2024, 07:13:PM »

He was still at the Palace when Prince George was born, I think. There's a picture of him posting the official notice on the gates. I'm sure they must be well into their 80's by now.
It was Jeremy's birth father, who posted the official announcement of Prince Harry's birth. https://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/video/london-buckingham-palace-ext-gv-palace-gate-and-crowds-news-footage/1341647440

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Re: Who Removed The Cash (and credit cards?) From NB's Wallet?
« Reply #56 on: October 22, 2024, 07:28:PM »
It was Jeremy's birth father, who posted the official announcement of Prince Harry's birth. https://www.gettyimages.co.uk/detail/video/london-buckingham-palace-ext-gv-palace-gate-and-crowds-news-footage/1341647440


Thanks, Steve. I knew I'd get the generations wrong!!