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Re: Jeremy Bamber proven innocent?
« Reply #1170 on: November 15, 2019, 10:48:PM »




I also don't know anyone who doesn't like money, do you ?

Not enough to do what he did.
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« Reply #1171 on: November 15, 2019, 10:50:PM »
I think of psychopathy as a personality type rather than a disorder or a mental illness. I don't think a psychopath is devoid of emotion, it's just that they don't really understand the feelings of others. You could say that about a lot of people these days, so is it really that uncommon?

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« Reply #1172 on: November 15, 2019, 10:51:PM »
Not enough to do what he did.





It wasn't a money killing.

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« Reply #1173 on: November 15, 2019, 10:51:PM »




I also don't know anyone who doesn't like money, do you ?

There's a huge difference between being content with enough and wanting the whole family fortune for oneself.

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« Reply #1174 on: November 15, 2019, 10:51:PM »
He didn’t seem to have any love for anything, like Brett said, there was no love for his Father, he didn’t like what his mother was doing, he didn’t have a brotherly/sister relationship with Sheila and he hated the dog and Julie was on her way out,   Brett did mention, he did like one thing though, MONEY

Julie wasn't on her way out at the time of the shootings. In fact, I'd say that Jeremy was pretty devoted to her. After all, she lived in London, but he made the effort to see her, and he seemed quite dependent on her in some ways. It's a mystery to me why he ended the relationship.

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« Reply #1175 on: November 15, 2019, 10:52:PM »
I think of psychopathy as a personality type rather than a disorder or a mental illness. I don't think a psychopath is devoid of emotion, it's just that they don't really understand the feelings of others. You could say that about a lot of people these days, so is it really that uncommon?




I'd say it was quite common.

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« Reply #1176 on: November 15, 2019, 10:54:PM »
Julie wasn't on her way out at the time of the shootings. In fact, I'd say that Jeremy was pretty devoted to her. After all, she lived in London, but he made the effort to see her, and he seemed quite dependent on her in some ways. It's a mystery to me why he ended the relationship.

Because he didn't need her anymore. He had his own flat in London (Sheila's), he had money and he was the talk of the town. He was all about having a good time.
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« Reply #1177 on: November 15, 2019, 10:59:PM »
Because he didn't need her anymore. He had his own flat in London (Sheila's), he had money and he was the talk of the town. He was all about having a good time.

He didn't break with her straightaway though. They spent a lot of time together after the deaths.

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« Reply #1178 on: November 15, 2019, 11:11:PM »
He didn't break with her straightaway though. They spent a lot of time together after the deaths.

In June before the murders, Jeremy went with Brett to Amsterdam, he was perusing some woman (a Colchester barmaid) he fancied  - booking the same hotel. Not someone who sounds serious about his girlfriend. He clearly wasn't faithful to her - even sleeping with Liz, one of her best mates.
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« Reply #1179 on: November 15, 2019, 11:17:PM »
Why did Jeremy want her to come over on the morning of the killings?

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« Reply #1180 on: November 15, 2019, 11:24:PM »
Why did Jeremy want her to come over on the morning of the killings?

Only he can answer that.
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« Reply #1181 on: November 15, 2019, 11:30:PM »
Only he can answer that.

It's not the action of someone who doesn't give a toss is it?

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« Reply #1182 on: November 15, 2019, 11:58:PM »
It's not the action of someone who doesn't give a toss is it?

Well, I'd have to say yes because I don't think he did give a toss. Weeks prior he was trying to see someone else and weeks after he did the same. Does that sound like someone who gives a toss. Julie knew what he's done - he needed to keep her close.
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« Reply #1183 on: November 16, 2019, 04:22:AM »
Julie wasn't on her way out at the time of the shootings. In fact, I'd say that Jeremy was pretty devoted to her. After all, she lived in London, but he made the effort to see her, and he seemed quite dependent on her in some ways. It's a mystery to me why he ended the relationship.
Bamber said his relationship had been unsteady for the last 6 months Kaldin, usually a long term relationship doesn’t end in one day, it’s usually over time.

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Re: Jeremy Bamber proven innocent?
« Reply #1184 on: November 16, 2019, 07:34:AM »
I think of psychopathy as a personality type rather than a disorder or a mental illness. I don't think a psychopath is devoid of emotion, it's just that they don't really understand the feelings of others. You could say that about a lot of people these days, so is it really that uncommon?


Well. psychopathy isn't than uncommon. What IS uncommon, thankfully, is the number of them who kill. I don't believe it's possible to experience emotions but fail to understand them in others.