Your visible anger is because you thought that only JM had attended,so why get in a sweat because Heather went too--------at the request of Colin who'd wished to remember the twins as they were and NOT about any damage inflicted upon them,they're your words added for effect as usual.Sheesh !
Please don't embarrass yourself by trying to play psychologist, Lookout. It's true I didn't know that Heather went, but this isn't about Heather. It's about Julie's reasons for going. It seems to me, that whichever woman went first, there'd have been NO justifiable reason for the other to have gone. It's also interesting that the reason you're now giving for Heather's attendance is the VERY reason you shouted me down, ie, when I said Colin couldn't face -didn't want to know- the truth. I have no idea why you accept Colin wanting to remember the twins as they were, yet at the same time insisting that it had nothing to do with the injuries they'd sustained.