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JEREMY BAMBER CASE => Jeremy Bamber Case Discussion => Topic started by: big-goolies on February 04, 2013, 08:27:PM

Title: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 04, 2013, 08:27:PM
Even the best actors dont win an Oscar
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Roch on February 04, 2013, 08:32:PM
Even the best actors dont win an Oscar

Hey BG.  I wish you'd just post under your normal forum ID, rather than BG.  It's ok.  We wont ban you.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: lookout on February 04, 2013, 08:33:PM
Even the best actors dont win an Oscar


So on those words,Jeremy was convicted.? He may have been trying to quote Oscar Wilde.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Patti on February 04, 2013, 08:34:PM
Hey BG.  I wish you'd just post under your normal forum ID, rather than BG.  It's ok.  We wont ban you.

oohhhhh...do we all now who he is lol   :-\ ;) ;) ;) ;)
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Caroline R on February 04, 2013, 08:35:PM
Even the best actors dont win an Oscar

Remind us who quoted him as saying that?
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Jane on February 04, 2013, 08:37:PM
Remind us who quoted him as saying that?




On the count of three. All together now............. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 04, 2013, 08:38:PM



On the count of three. All together now............. ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

 
go for it
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 04, 2013, 08:39:PM
Remind us who quoted him as saying that?

 
Muggy ?  bet he regrets knowing her
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Jane on February 04, 2013, 08:53:PM

 
Muggy ?  bet he regrets knowing her



She had carte blanche. There was NOBODY who could verify that Jeremy said/did ANYTHING she said he did/said. Weigh all that up against the woman who said "If I can't have you, nobody else will" as she put a pillow over his face.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Alias on February 04, 2013, 08:59:PM
Even the best actors dont win an Oscar

Maybe the Mugster was projecting her own acting skills onto Jeremy?  ;)
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: guest154 on February 04, 2013, 09:09:PM
oohhhhh...do we all now who he is lol   :-\ ;) ;) ;) ;)

I don't!

Witch hunt time!
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: packagebuilder on February 04, 2013, 09:11:PM
lol things don't change on here!  :) :) :)
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 04, 2013, 09:12:PM
now im thinking of that Monty Python scene.....
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Patti on February 04, 2013, 09:31:PM
I don't!

Witch hunt time!

I haven't got a clue.... :-\ :-\ :-\ :D :D :D :D
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Lugg on February 04, 2013, 10:07:PM
now im thinking of that Monty Python scene.....
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m07ISfx_5b0
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: hourglass on February 04, 2013, 11:22:PM


She had carte blanche. There was NOBODY who could verify that Jeremy said/did ANYTHING she said he did/said. Weigh all that up against the woman who said "If I can't have you, nobody else will" as she put a pillow over his face.

That is just foreplay where I come from... ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: andrea on February 04, 2013, 11:35:PM
That is just foreplay where I come from... ;D ;D ;D

Haha! Whats the main like? ;)
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: mertol22 on February 04, 2013, 11:45:PM
Haha! Whats the main like? ;)
you can buy them on Ebay !
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: hourglass on February 04, 2013, 11:57:PM
Haha! Whats the main like? ;)

Fearsome!

I used to have a boyfriend that liked that kinda thing...
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Steve_uk on February 05, 2013, 12:00:AM


She had carte blanche. There was NOBODY who could verify that Jeremy said/did ANYTHING she said he did/said. Weigh all that up against the woman who said "If I can't have you, nobody else will" as she put a pillow over his face.
..and who did this come from april1?
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Caroline R on February 05, 2013, 09:10:AM
..and who did this come from april1?

It came from Mugford. Your point being? She had to admit it, like she had to admit the bank fraud!! But if you can't see through her by now, you never will.

Sorry Steve, but Mugford's halo has slipped so far down, she uses it as a hoola hoop!!
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Lugg on February 05, 2013, 11:02:AM
Fearsome!

I used to have a boyfriend that liked that kinda thing...
Who was he, Bruce Lee?
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Steve_uk on February 05, 2013, 07:08:PM
It came from Mugford. Your point being? She had to admit it, like she had to admit the bank fraud!! But if you can't see through her by now, you never will.

Sorry Steve, but Mugford's halo has slipped so far down, she uses it as a hoola hoop!!
Julie didn't have to admit it,but she was telling the truth warts and all..
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: killingeve on February 05, 2013, 07:12:PM
It came from Mugford. Your point being? She had to admit it, like she had to admit the bank fraud!! But if you can't see through her by now, you never will.

Sorry Steve, but Mugford's halo has slipped so far down, she uses it as a hoola hoop!!

Don't you mean ankle bracelet?   ;)
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Jane on February 05, 2013, 07:14:PM
Julie didn't have to admit it,but she was telling the truth warts and all..




Steve dear, I had to check the poster who named this thread. I had imagined it to be you. I think being en ecTOR would suit you very well :) :) :) :)
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: hourglass on February 05, 2013, 07:23:PM
Who was he, Bruce Lee?

Not far off,  it was fun while it lasted but things got tooooo intense.   ;)
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Lugg on February 05, 2013, 07:29:PM
Not far off,  it was fun while it lasted but things got tooooo intense.   ;)
Wah! ..........Wah!. ;D
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Steve_uk on February 05, 2013, 08:13:PM



Steve dear, I had to check the poster who named this thread. I had imagined it to be you. I think being en ecTOR would suit you very well :) :) :) :)
..and let's remember the provenance of that remark: a chuckling Jeremy after he has just hours before killed his adoptive parents,sister and nephews,a Jeremy who was going to dump Julie so we are told but needed her so badly at this point that he asked the Police to bring her down from London privately so he could see her that morning.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: lookout on February 05, 2013, 08:19:PM
..and let's remember the provenance of that remark: a chuckling Jeremy after he has just hours before killed his adoptive parents,sister and nephews,a Jeremy who was going to dump Julie so we are told but needed her so badly at this point that he asked the Police to bring her down from London privately so he could see her that morning.


It just sounded to me that Jeremy couldn't handle the situation on his own. His " laughter " would be a cover-up to hide his sorrow. Trying to me macho in other words,,but I bet he felt like a lost soul.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 05, 2013, 08:26:PM
..and let's remember the provenance of that remark: a chuckling Jeremy after he has just hours before killed his adoptive parents,sister and nephews,a Jeremy who was going to dump Julie so we are told but needed her so badly at this point that he asked the Police to bring her down from London privately so he could see her that morning.

 
He got the police to taxi muggy to him ? now thats somewhat cocksure and arrogant
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Patti on February 05, 2013, 08:44:PM

 
He got the police to taxi muggy to him ? now thats somewhat cocksure and arrogant

The police fetched her.  The police asked him if there would be anyone he would like with him and he said yes, his girlfriend, like another man would...Well, I think they would.  She was the closest to him.  :) :) :) :) :)
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Jane on February 05, 2013, 08:44:PM
..and let's remember the provenance of that remark: a chuckling Jeremy after he has just hours before killed his adoptive parents,sister and nephews,a Jeremy who was going to dump Julie so we are told but needed her so badly at this point that he asked the Police to bring her down from London privately so he could see her that morning.


A choke of distress from someone desperate not to show it could sound very like a chuckle to somebody standing where they can't see them. I suppose you're suggesting that he asked to be alone with JM just so he could giggle about what he'd done?
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Jane on February 05, 2013, 08:47:PM

 
He got the police to taxi muggy to him ? now thats somewhat cocksure and arrogant


Come on BG, this is Steve speak, or perhaps I should say, engineering.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Steve_uk on February 05, 2013, 08:54:PM

A choke of distress from someone desperate not to show it could sound very like a chuckle to somebody standing where they can't see them. I suppose you're suggesting that he asked to be alone with JM just so he could giggle about what he'd done?
No,he asked to be alone with Julie so that he could check the progress of his evil scheme and that it was still intact. He told her in London that he had put his life in her hands,and thought that Julie would be like all the other girls he had previously dated and go along with Jeremy's wishes.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Jane on February 05, 2013, 09:14:PM
No,he asked to be alone with Julie so that he could check the progress of his evil scheme and that it was still intact. He told her in London that he had put his life in her hands,and thought that Julie would be like all the other girls he had previously dated and go along with Jeremy's wishes.


I think the concensus from many is that contrary to what has previously been said, it was Jeremy who danced to the tune of a woman who was prepared to done anything for money. Jeremy actually didn't need to. Unlike JM, he had always had it and was assured of it. Perhaps you could explain your first sentence. Why would he wish to be alone with her "to check on the progress of his evil scheme to see if it was still on track" How the hell, other than supposedly knowing for a full 6months what his plan was, would she know, unless of course, she'd helped him plan it. I can think of no other reason why he should seek her opinion.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Steve_uk on February 05, 2013, 10:38:PM

I think the concensus from many is that contrary to what has previously been said, it was Jeremy who danced to the tune of a woman who was prepared to done anything for money. Jeremy actually didn't need to. Unlike JM, he had always had it and was assured of it. Perhaps you could explain your first sentence. Why would he wish to be alone with her "to check on the progress of his evil scheme to see if it was still on track" How the hell, other than supposedly knowing for a full 6months what his plan was, would she know, unless of course, she'd helped him plan it. I can think of no other reason why he should seek her opinion.
You're forgetting the role of the ladies' bicycle in all of this,for which he needed Julie at Bourtree Cottage on Saturday 3rd August.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: hourglass on February 05, 2013, 10:44:PM

It just sounded to me that Jeremy couldn't handle the situation on his own. His " laughter " would be a cover-up to hide his sorrow. Trying to me macho in other words,,but I bet he felt like a lost soul.

What people laugh and go on drug deals when they are grief-stricken?  I must be missing out on something here.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: lookout on February 06, 2013, 01:09:PM
What people laugh and go on drug deals when they are grief-stricken?  I must be missing out on something here.


Don't be funny,hourglass.! Explain your odd explanation please.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 08, 2013, 12:04:PM

Don't be funny,hourglass.! Explain your odd explanation please.

 
does hourglass mean JB's trip to France
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 08, 2013, 12:06:PM
it's true that most of JB's trip were drug related in many ways.
would appear he did like that jetsetter lifestyle and for that he needed money , wether its was from drugs or an inheritance
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: lookout on February 08, 2013, 12:07:PM

 
does hourglass mean JB's trip to France


I don't think so,BG. It's conspicuous by its absence.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 08, 2013, 12:55:PM
but even a 'jolly' to france is an odd trip for someone who is grieving
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: lookout on February 08, 2013, 01:45:PM
but even a 'jolly' to france is an odd trip for someone who is grieving


Nothing odd about that,BG. I flew to the other side of the world when my husband died,,,,though it was spur of the moment as I was still grieving. It's just that feeling of getting away from it all. Nothing sinister,,,nor did I murder my husband. You don't have to have committed murder to get away you know.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Lugg on February 08, 2013, 02:11:PM
but even a 'jolly' to france is an odd trip for someone who is grieving
No it isn't believe me. Sometimes the only way to handle grief is to disappear and get as far as posible from the source of grief. Totally natural if you ask me.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 08, 2013, 05:22:PM
Ive seen plenty of grieve and nobody went away on holiday to get away from it all.  most grief needs to be taken  head-on
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Lugg on February 08, 2013, 05:33:PM
Ive seen plenty of grieve and nobody went away on holiday to get away from it all.  most grief needs to be taken  head-on
My mother didn't take it head on. She did get away from it.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Caroline R on February 08, 2013, 05:36:PM
My mother didn't take it head on. She did get away from it.

Did the same thing Lugg when my brother committed suicide!!
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Jane on February 08, 2013, 05:36:PM
Ive seen plenty of grieve and nobody went away on holiday to get away from it all.  most grief needs to be taken  head-on



Rather sweeping statement, that, BG. You should try a stint of grief counselling. Most prefer to believe it hasn't happened in the early stages. It's a form of self protection.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 08, 2013, 05:40:PM
its not good to run away from it  :'(
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Lugg on February 08, 2013, 05:44:PM
its not good to run away from it  :'(
My mother had a nervous breakdown as well. Took months to get her to acknowledge what had happened.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Jane on February 08, 2013, 05:44:PM
its not good to run away from it  :'(



It wasn't my job as a grief counsellor to tell people what is/isn't good for them. Everyone must be allowed to do what they feel is best for themselves.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Caroline R on February 08, 2013, 05:44:PM
its not good to run away from it  :'(

Perhaps not but everyone handles grief differently. There's no right or wrong way.
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: big-goolies on February 08, 2013, 05:45:PM
Perhaps not but everyone handles grief differently. There's no right or wrong way.

 
thats true
Title: Re: "i should have been an actor"
Post by: Alias on February 09, 2013, 08:49:PM

Nothing odd about that,BG. I flew to the other side of the world when my husband died,,,,though it was spur of the moment as I was still grieving. It's just that feeling of getting away from it all. Nothing sinister,,,nor did I murder my husband. You don't have to have committed murder to get away you know.

I am sorry to learn your husband passedd away, it must have been hard on you.