She didn't want to do go to the funerals. Or do other things. Read her WS & testimony.
Anyway, you believe you would have acted differently. So what ?
Then why did she go? She made a big effort to dress up - I was surprised by that veil. She clung onto his arm, she didn't just trail along behind him. I don't believe she didn't want to go, or that she didn't want to do any of those things she did. She wasn't beholden to him, she lived elsewhere, and it would have been easy for her to make excuses not to see him.
So what? I don't know - I'm merely giving my opinion because some people admire her for coming forward, and I don't.