No Lookout, you INSISTED strongly that Colin's reluctance to identify the twins had NOTHING to do with my belief that he couldn't face the truth -and I believe I DO know- and is actually corroborated by his own words in the book you've read and can quote from but seem NOT to have read those words. This has NOTHING to do with Heather. It's simply about Colin not being willing to see the destruction inflicted on his children. I understand that.
I don't get me wrong Jane I completely understand why he didn't identify them but I wonder if he regrets it and also it's the boys , I would need to tuck them in, I wouldn't want anyone else going near them. It was obviously too much for him to bare but for me no one would have got in there except me.
It's actually the boys I'm thinking of not Colin. Poor little darlings, breaks my heart to think of them.