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« Reply #90 on: January 11, 2017, 12:08:PM »
i doubt very much that it really happend but it would be intrestin to know the source of the story and why it was said.

I agree nugnug, there were numerous wild claims and accusations made following SH's confession, you only need read on from here http://jeremybamberforum.co.uk/index.php/topic,4548.msg187474.html#msg187474 to see how such misinformation can be banded about. The source helps along with the intent of the source I find.
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« Reply #91 on: January 11, 2017, 12:14:PM »
I agree nugnug, there were numerous wild claims and accusations made following SH's confession, you only need read on from here http://jeremybamberforum.co.uk/index.php/topic,4548.msg187474.html#msg187474 to see how such misinformation can be banded about. The source helps along with the intent of the source I find.

I think this just goes to show that people will defend their position even in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. I can't understand how people who weren't involved, don't have access to information that you have, can still argue the toss with you in respect to SH's confession. He did seem to be in a position where, he was looking at freedom - I very much doubt he'd have chosen that time to confess UNLESS he had areal reason for doing so. Kudos to you for being able to admit you were wrong and sharing the many things you have learned since!
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« Reply #92 on: January 11, 2017, 01:10:PM »
I think this just goes to show that people will defend their position even in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. I can't understand how people who weren't involved, don't have access to information that you have, can still argue the toss with you in respect to SH's confession. He did seem to be in a position where, he was looking at freedom - I very much doubt he'd have chosen that time to confess UNLESS he had areal reason for doing so. Kudos to you for being able to admit you were wrong and sharing the many things you have learned since!

He'd just been awarded D-cat status prior to us learning of the Zenith burglary in November 2012 but was still in closed prison conditions at this point. Kingston prison were closing down, so rather than move him to another closed prison, they moved him to open conditions earlier than expected. He'd lied in his Guittard application about having support from family members and this along with numerous other things caught up with him. He blogged about his journey from Portsmouth to Hollesley Bay. And I think his experiences during the move brought the murder back home to him. He was driven past the village of Capel, as well as being placed in the cell next to the one he was in when on remand (when they stopped off in Chelmsford).

Initially as you know I posted as Truthseeker because I was tired of the constant abuse and attacks I was being subjected to, as well as the malicious allegations being made about me at the time. Plus I had fears me posting here would get back to SH (Which of course it did) but I couldn't sit back and watch the farce continue any longer, especially as his brother was manufacturing yet more rubbish.

I'm grateful to many of you here for the support and indeed understanding showed, as it made the experience a little easier, then and now.
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« Reply #93 on: January 11, 2017, 01:57:PM »
I think this just goes to show that people will defend their position even in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. I can't understand how people who weren't involved, don't have access to information that you have, can still argue the toss with you in respect to SH's confession. He did seem to be in a position where, he was looking at freedom - I very much doubt he'd have chosen that time to confess UNLESS he had areal reason for doing so. Kudos to you for being able to admit you were wrong and sharing the many things you have learned since!
I totally agree, Stephanie has shown courage, it's not easy to admit you were wrong/mistaken/duped at any time but to admit it on a public forum takes a particular kind of strength which deserves acknowledgment.

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« Reply #94 on: January 11, 2017, 02:10:PM »
I totally agree, Stephanie has shown courage, it's not easy to admit you were wrong/mistaken/duped at any time but to admit it on a public forum takes a particular kind of strength which deserves acknowledgment.
I have to agree Maggie it takes courage and a better person to admit when they have got it wrong/mistaken/duped.  Most of all I have found Steph's posts fascinating and helpful, having gone through an incident ourselves as a family with a sex offender where we was duped, I think Steph is doing the right thing in talking about it and having a forum like this and such good friends as yourself Caroline, Jane, Susie and NGB helped me through a very difficult part of my life.

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« Reply #95 on: January 11, 2017, 02:39:PM »
I have to agree Maggie it takes courage and a better person to admit when they have got it wrong/mistaken/duped.  Most of all I have found Steph's posts fascinating and helpful, having gone through an incident ourselves as a family with a sex offender where we was duped, I think Steph is doing the right thing in talking about it and having a forum like this and such good friends as yourself Caroline, Jane, Susie and NGB helped me through a very difficult part of my life.
Its generous of you to say so Justice, thank you.
I admit Myself and my family were well and truly duped by a malignant manipulative, thief, bully etc. These people are a race apart, they are so clever with their manipulative brainwashing thAt they are very difficult to resist until it's too late and they have had their fun. They leave a trail devastation behind them.

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« Reply #96 on: January 11, 2017, 02:43:PM »
Its generous of you to say so Justice, thank you.
I admit Myself and my family were well and truly duped by a malignant manipulative, thief, bully etc. These people are a race apart, they are so clever with their manipulative brainwashing thAt they are very difficult to resist until it's too late and they have had their fun. They leave a trail devastation behind them.

I think until you have known someone like that, it's difficult to grasp what a psychopath is.
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« Reply #97 on: January 11, 2017, 02:50:PM »
were changing the subject i wonder why.

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« Reply #98 on: January 11, 2017, 02:53:PM »
Its generous of you to say so Justice, thank you.
I admit Myself and my family were well and truly duped by a malignant manipulative, thief, bully etc. These people are a race apart, they are so clever with their manipulative brainwashing thAt they are very difficult to resist until it's too late and they have had their fun. They leave a trail devastation behind them.

There's no reason for Steph not to speak out about what she experienced. Hopefully, those experiences will help others -although that's their responsibility- but it will certainly help Steph who was in NO way responsible for the actions of SH. Her only 'crime' -for those who are looking for one- was believing a practiced and manipulative liar. I'm NOT of the school that believes 'things' are best kept secret.

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« Reply #99 on: January 11, 2017, 02:54:PM »
were changing the subject i wonder why.

Feel free to change it back then, Nugs ;D

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« Reply #100 on: January 11, 2017, 02:54:PM »
I think this just goes to show that people will defend their position even in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. I can't understand how people who weren't involved, don't have access to information that you have, can still argue the toss with you in respect to SH's confession. He did seem to be in a position where, he was looking at freedom - I very much doubt he'd have chosen that time to confess UNLESS he had areal reason for doing so. Kudos to you for being able to admit you were wrong and sharing the many things you have learned since!

what you mean there just supposed to blindlley exept stephs word for everything.

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« Reply #101 on: January 11, 2017, 02:58:PM »
what you mean there just supposed to blindlley exept stephs word for everything.

Why should they NOT, Nugs. None of them lived through it.

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« Reply #102 on: January 11, 2017, 03:00:PM »
lived through what exactly.


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« Reply #103 on: January 11, 2017, 03:09:PM »
lived through what exactly.

The personal experience that you appear to be questioning.

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« Reply #104 on: January 11, 2017, 03:38:PM »
im sorry but qustioning things is  1 of my bad habbits i cant help having a cyncle nature.