Thanks for so much hard work doing look ups, etc.
I can't help noticing the surname Jay cropping up because
on Dartmoor in Devon, there is a famous grave at a crossroad.
The grave is that of Mary"Kitty" Jay.
Kittty Jay was born illegitimately and taken to the Workhouse, where
she grew up.
Later, she was sent as a young girl to work on a neighbouring farm.
She became pregnant and was told to leave the farm.
(It is believed that the farmer's son got her pregnant. But it could have been the Farmer or a Farmhand.)
She committed suicide and was found hanged in the Barn!
Hence her burial at the crossroad to prevent her coming back to haunt.