Is Jeremy Bamber a Psychopath?

[lookout]

How would anyone, without intimate knowledge of the family -which, from what we understand, isn't likely- know such details?

Unless Jeremy and Sheila had a really warm and close relationship, I doubt it's something they'd have discussed together. I don't see either as given to introspection.

Where do any authors get ALL their material from ? Besides 2 or 3 crooked ex. journalists/editors trying to make a quick buck on the side.

[Jane]

Where do any authors get ALL their material from ? Besides 2 or 3 crooked ex. journalists/editors trying to make a quick buck on the side.

When they offer evidence that they can't possible know about, ie inside knowledge of intimate family happenings, SO long ago that neither they, nor anyone else could have been privy to, questions are b ound to be asked.

[sami]

London flat was only rented though wasn't it.

may have been hartley.but sheila never spent a penny .everything paid for by parents

[lookout]

When they offer evidence that they can't possible know about, ie inside knowledge of intimate family happenings, SO long ago that neither they, nor anyone else could have been privy to, questions are b ound to be asked.

What they don't know is usually made up anyway on the strength of those who see the man guilty as it doesn't matter then.
How anyone can write a book after he's been ,arrested,charged,convicted and imprisoned for life,I fail to understand.

[Jane]

What they don't know is usually made up anyway on the strength of those who see the man guilty as it doesn't matter then.
How anyone can write a book after he's been ,arrested,charged,convicted and imprisoned for life,I fail to understand.

Lookout, if that's what you believe, why are you so quick to offer what CP says as being true?

[Jane]

Not in every household-----no. Why should it ?

Why should it NOT? It's a perfectly normal and appropriate reaction when one sibling feels that the other sibling is getting more than their fair share of something.

[lookout]

Lookout, if that's what you believe, why are you so quick to offer what CP says as being true?

That's just it,I'm not. It's about conflicting views of each author.It's whether you take all in that which is written in anti-Bamber formula to suit your scenario.
I just try people out and wait for responses.

[notsure]

Mmmmmm interesting but im not into all that. Life is what you make it no matter who you are. We all have stories to tell, my dad died when i was four! Some peoples dad who died when they were young would say i turned out this way because i was brought up by a single parent. What a load of waddle i say. Get over it, make your life what you want it to be. Excuses dont make it right.

[Jane]

That's just it,I'm not. It's about conflicting views of each author.It's whether you take all in that which is written in anti-Bamber formula to suit your scenario.
I just try people out and wait for responses.

I have NO idea whether CP is pro or anti -have you read her? I believe there to be several you haven't- but I'm not prepared to accept what she -or ANY author- says occurred during Jeremy and Sheila's childhood, at a time when in all probability, there was no one else present, other than the immediate family.

[sami]

That's just it,I'm not. It's about conflicting views of each author.It's whether you take all in that which is written in anti-Bamber formula to suit your scenario.
I just try people out and wait for responses.

very clever lookout.try people out  first

[Jane]

Mmmmmm interesting but im not into all that. Life is what you make it no matter who you are. We all have stories to tell, my dad died when i was four! Some peoples dad who died when they were young would say i turned out this way because i was brought up by a single parent. What a load of waddle i say. Get over it, make your life what you want it to be. Excuses dont make it right.

Then forgive me for saying, that as you have no other frame of reference than how it felt for you, personally, to be bought up in a one person family, that experience WILL have coloured your life. Our own experience is all ANY of us have.

[lookout]

I have NO idea whether CP is pro or anti -have you read her? I believe there to be several you haven't- but I'm not prepared to accept what she -or ANY author- says occurred during Jeremy and Sheila's childhood, at a time when in all probability, there was no one else present, other than the immediate family.

She's anti. Though at the same time doesn't do any of them any favours.

[sami]

Then forgive me for saying, that as you have no other frame of reference than how it felt for you, personally, to be bought up in a one person family, that experience WILL have coloured your life. Our own experience is all ANY of us have.

thats very true jane.

[notsure]

Then forgive me for saying, that as you have no other frame of reference than how it felt for you, personally, to be bought up in a one person family, that experience WILL have coloured your life. Our own experience is all ANY of us have.

Mum got married again so ive had a second dad for the last 40 years so im lucky.

I think what im trying to say jane is that all of us throughout our lives have experiences , tragedies,  unhappines ect etc , some affect us more than others, believe me jane i could write a book on some of the things that ive been through
, the last one took me four years to realise that i couldnt spend the rest of my life feeling giulty, sad and bieng a victim. It was my life and i needed to get on with it. Whats so different about being adopted, in some cases it might be sad/ terrible in others happy/ wonderful. We all have a choice dont we.

[Jane]

Mum got married again so ive had a second dad for the last 40 years so im lucky.

I think what im trying to say jane is that all of us throughout our lives have experiences , tragedies,  unhappines ect etc , some affect us more than others, believe me jane i could write a book on some of the things that ive been through
, the last one took me four years to realise that i couldnt spend the rest of my life feeling giulty, sad and bieng a victim. It was my life and i needed to get on with it. Whats so different about being adopted, in some cases it might be sad/ terrible in others happy/ wonderful. We all have a choice dont we.

I'm delighted that it worked out well for you, Notsure.

You're correct in saying that we all have individual experiences. How we're affected by them largely depends on what sort of support network we've enjoyed/suffered during our childhoods.

I'm glad that you've managed to lift yourself out of whatever it was you felt was holding you back. You ask what's so different about being adopted. Perhaps I can ask you what it feels like to NOT be adopted. You're right. We DO have choices. However, when one adds in all the variables, those choices become very limited.