There is an alternative point of view. https://youtu.be/JkWtSeN_Zuo
The rush for the border to escape mobilisation is just more idiotic propaganda. The videos that I linked to weren't a point of view. They were simply the unedited speeches of Putin and Shoigu, from which you can form your own view.
The video that you linked to is just someone bullshitting. AP themselves have even debunked the Finland/Russia border lies. They are countless videos of Russians en masse going to the recruiting stations to volunteer. The Chechnians were mobilising in their thousands. Believe the hopium and copium if you like but the reality is that the Russians are way more united and behind their president and armed forces than any NATO country.
The videos of Putin and Shoigu's speeches was a reply to Roch who had mentioned that the "lack of Russian translator on our TV" was not helpful. It was simply translated speeches, in full and in context. Your alternative link was exactly what Roch was taking issue with.
The narrative that Russians are fleeing, that you have been fed by your narrative managers, is demonstrably false. Many more are flocking to the recruiting centres to volunteer than are fleeing, by several magnitudes.
You would do better to view the speeches and discuss them rather than the ramblings of "Joe Blogs" the you-tuber.