I would go along with that Maggie.
As a child,or children,bro. and I weren't allowed to show any emotion in public. If either of us kicked off in a shop,like kids do with boredom,we'd have been " dealt " with. Crying was a no no,and it's surprising what it does do to you should the need arise,such as in some cases it meant crying while explaining something,was telling lies,because one doesn't cry when they're telling the truth,which is quite true in lots of cases,as what is there to cry for ?