The Week of the Murders

[No-Bits]

I don't think that Alias is a 'proper' moderator? But I for one certainly think that she should be. Alias is intelligent,level headed and very lovely,but also assertive which,I feel is an important requirement as a moderator. Having Alias as a moderator would also balance out our current moderators regarding the guilty/innocence stance and would be fairer. Imo.

I'm fairly certain that she doesn't want to be one though.

[susan]

Jackie excuse me when have I said anything wrong about Alias she is a great person and we have been friends since I joined the forum.  I don't think it is appropriate you adding to it by having a pop at Caroline she deleted many of Scipio's posts and has told him on the board to cut out the insults.  She has of late been modding the forum alone and she cannot be expected to see everything  She is a very fair minded person and I fear she has been attacked more since she changed to a guilty stance which is grossly unfair.

[Caroline]

I am here for one reason only because I believe Jeremy is innocent.

I will support Alias or anyone else that feels bullied.

I have known Alias for years and years before you joined the forum

I am not interested in what Caroline says because I believe she is wrong

It's interesting you talk about supporting people being bullied when YOU have tried doing that to me - few people stood up to be counted then because of your reputation. People tend to walk on egg shells around you because they don't want to be your next target. This board had taught me to be careful who I trust and who I class as a friend.

For the record, I don't agree with ANYONE being bullied but the forum doesn't need you using the slightest tiff as an opportunity for a dig!! Why don't you TRY debating the case for a change!!

[Caroline]

I like things out in the open, I hardly ever PM anyone. If I have something to say I say it in the open forum.
I did not mean "you", just anyone on "duty" - this is not your board.
I feel abused and bullied. I have lost every desire posting here, I think that you and most of the other moderators agree with the bullying that is going on, meaning, when scipio calls me an idiot, you agree.

As everyone was on holiday or in bed - there ws only me and there usually is only me on at that time. I didn't say it was my board nor do I want it to be! But I have stuck up for just about every regular member on this board at one time or another. I removed ALL of the posts which upset you but it seems I can't do right for doing wrong. I also feel bullied BUT I DLTBGMD!!

[susan]

Caroline you have been bullied since you changed your stance to guilty.  Don't let them get to you as you do a great job and the forum would be a sorry state without you.  You have some good loyal friends on here who will always support you because you are a nice fair minded person. XXX

[Caroline]

Caroline you have been bullied since you changed your stance to guilty.  Don't let them get to you as you do a great job and the forum would be a sorry state without you.  You have some good loyal friends on here who will always support you because you are a nice fair minded person. XXX

Thanks Susan  X

[Adam]

I don't really see how Jackie can bully anyone. Can't say I have noticed her bullying Caroline myself.

Jackie is a loyal Jeremy supporter, so can create threads and posts proving how Jeremy is innocent. If convincing, people like me will be forced to change stance.  Literally bullying me into submission with evidence.

However she tends to just make statements without backing it up with sources.

A recent one was 'Jeremy loved farming'. I answered this statement with lots of evidence showing that he did 'not' like farming. And got no response.

[No-Bits]

As everyone was on holiday or in bed - there ws only me and there usually is only me on at that time. I didn't say it was my board nor do I want it to be! But I have stuck up for just about every regular member on this board at one time or another. I removed ALL of the posts which upset you but it seems I can't do right for doing wrong. I also feel bullied BUT I DLTBGMD!!

For the most part I get on very well with Alias/Abs, but without intending to cause offence, she can be rather sensitive. We've all had to put up being called names or goading comments at one time or another. Sometimes the goading/bullying is more subtle but it can be equally annoying or upsetting.

I'm rather thick skinned and have a bit of a chuckle to myself when somebody thinks they are capable of winding me up, particularly these days.

Whilst I'm sympathetic towards Alias' complaints, she is certainly not alone and if she is so affected by it all, then perhaps Internet forums of this nature are not the place for her. 

[No-Bits]

Caroline you have been bullied since you changed your stance to guilty.  Don't let them get to you as you do a great job and the forum would be a sorry state without you.  You have some good loyal friends on here who will always support you because you are a nice fair minded person. XXX

Yes that is also how I perceive it.

[susan]

Morning Harters what a well balanced good none biased post.  I sincerely think you should be a Mod as you are fair minded and can take some flack and your feathers never become ruffled.

[No-Bits]

Morning Harters what a well balanced good none biased post.  I sincerely think you should be a Mod as you are fair minded and can take some flack and your feathers never become ruffled.

Not on your nelly. No thank you, not in a million years.  :D

[Caroline]

I don't really see how Jackie can bully anyone. Can't say I have noticed her bullying Caroline myself.

Jackie is a loyal Jeremy supporter, so can create threads and posts proving how Jeremy is innocent. If convincing, people like me will be forced to change stance. 

However she tends to just make statements without backing it up with sources.

A recent one was 'Jeremy loved farming'. I answered this statement with lots of evidence showing that he did 'not' like farming. And got no response.

Then you should pay more attention to what you read. She hasn't bullied me - I said she tires but I won't let her get to me because she isn't important.

[ngb1066]

I like things out in the open, I hardly ever PM anyone. If I have something to say I say it in the open forum.
I did not mean "you", just anyone on "duty" - this is not your board.
I feel abused and bullied. I have lost every desire posting here, I think that you and most of the other moderators agree with the bullying that is going on, meaning, when scipio calls me an idiot, you agree.

I am sorry you feel that way Alias.  I certainly do not agree with the personal attacks which have been made against you, and against others.  It is difficult to know how to deal with this.  Our only powers are to ban a member or to delete or edit posts.  We try to avoid bans save as a last resort.  It is difficult to decide when to edit or delete posts - the posts themselves tend to reflect badly on the poster so it is sometimes better to leave them.  If there are posts which offend or upset you please let us know by PM or by using the report facility and whichever administrator or moderator is online can take the necessary action.

You are a long standing and respected member here and you should not feel bullied at any time.

 

[susan]

Adam I guess you have been on a different forum than the rest of us.  I now feel and I have suspected you are here to cause unrest on the forum as you disagreed with me when I said Jeremy Bamber was innocent then when I changed my stance you still disagreed with me. 

[Adam]

Then you should pay more attention to what you read. She hasn't bullied me - I said she tires but I won't let her get to me because she isn't important.

She tries, and you answer back. So not bullying then.