The Week of the Murders

[nugnug]

I also didn't know that documents had been drawn up with a view to the adoption of the twins ??
Also,in court,a friend of Sheilas' stated that June constantly told Sheila that she was an unfit mother.

Why hasn't information like this been bandied about for a change instead of pointing a finger at Jeremy ?

All this " in-fighting " behind closed doors is hiding a multitude of evidence.

what i cant understand is nevie and june dident have the power to put the twins up for adoption.

[lookout]

 No,the parents wouldn't,but if they'd told social services the full truth of the situation,then SS would have acted on it. SS  have more powers than the police.

[nugnug]

but sheila dident have custody of them there father did so anything she was doing was rather irrelevant.

[lookout]

 Well that's right,as Colin wanted complete custody,which was obviously to avoid adoption coming into it at all. I can see where the discussion would have become heated if Sheila had been asked which option she'd wanted----------adoption of the twins,or Colins 100% custody.
Sheila,in her " sick " mind wouldn't have wanted either because she'd have felt that she'd lost all control over her boys and would then have had to have made arrangements in order to see them.
Not a lot to have looked forward to ?
Any mother in her shoes who was told that she was losing full control of her children would go mad.I don't care who it is. To have your children taken from you is enough ( if you're already sick ) to go out and kill.

[nugnug]

yes that would make sense.

[Alias]

I guess by 'you' - you mean me? You just have to point out the post Alias - I can't be expected to see everything. A PM would have sufficed.

I like things out in the open, I hardly ever PM anyone. If I have something to say I say it in the open forum.
I did not mean "you", just anyone on "duty" - this is not your board.
I feel abused and bullied. I have lost every desire posting here, I think that you and most of the other moderators agree with the bullying that is going on, meaning, when scipio calls me an idiot, you agree.

[No-Bits]

I like things out in the open, I hardly ever PM anyone. If I have something to say I say it in the open forum.
I did not mean "you", just anyone on "duty" - this is not your board.
I feel abused and bullied. I have lost every desire posting here, I think that you and most of the other moderators agree with the bullying that is going on, meaning, when scipio calls me an idiot, you agree.

Insults might always be a fact of life. The extent to which we tolerate them, however, is an age-old conundrum.

[maggie]

Insults might always be a fact of life. The extent to which we tolerate them, however, is an age-old conundrum.

Hi Alias, am on holiday just now but have  read your post. I agree you should not have to put up with abuse and name calling is bullying and abuse.
You're a long term and respected member of this forum who always writes thoughtful well balanced posts and personally I hate to see you treated this way,  ..... you deserve better imo 
I havent read all the board and apologise to others who have been bullied. I'm not criticising other mods we have always worked as avteam just acknowledging Alias' s post ...... in case there's any misunderstanding.

[JackiePreece]

I like things out in the open, I hardly ever PM anyone. If I have something to say I say it in the open forum.
I did not mean "you", just anyone on "duty" - this is not your board.
I feel abused and bullied. I have lost every desire posting here, I think that you and most of the other moderators agree with the bullying that is going on, meaning, when scipio calls me an idiot, you agree.

It's disgusting Alias and I probably haven't highlighted how much YOU have been bullied especially when you have always been on the 'fence'

It's obvious the behaviour is to bring about an end to the forum and it's working well

[susan]

Jackie it is quite obvious you are just here to stir up trouble for Caroline but you will not succeed she is too highly thought of on this forum. None of this should be discussed on the open forum it makes other posters feel uncomfortable.  Put your efforts to better use and try and find evidence to free Jeremy Bamber.

[Adam]

I have always felt Alias was more of a Jeremy supporter. Although she is now saying she is undecided as other former loyal supporters have moved to guilty.

She certainly had a tantrum when I joined, saying she was putting me on ignore. Not sure why as I was posting about Jeremy Bamber, on a Jeremy Bamber forum. Jansus, who still is a Jeremy supporter, also put me on ignore as I highlighted his guilt.

Bit disappointed when Alias did not thank me recently when I answered her question. At first saying she did not ask the question. Then saying she did ask it but was not interested in the answer.

Also a bit disappointed she then told everyone I had been banned for 24 hours,  after I responded to Caroline saying 'no one, and I mean no one is interested in reading you're threads'. Which was  uncalled for and incorrect. These things should be kept private.

As a moderator Alias can moderate,  delete posts or ban people if she is being bullied. I am not allowed to say 'thread already created', or provide a link to another thread which answers someone's question. Obviously other posters think it is outrageous that I did this.

At least Alias has not had a poll created on her. I had that dubious honour from Harters. He was upset that I was creating threads on Jeremy Bamber. On a Jeremy Bamber forum. Someone has to buddie.

[JackiePreece]

Jackie it is quite obvious you are just here to stir up trouble for Caroline but you will not succeed she is too highly thought of on this forum. None of this should be discussed on the open forum it makes other posters feel uncomfortable.  Put your efforts to better use and try and find evidence to free Jeremy Bamber.

I am here for one reason only because I believe Jeremy is innocent.

I will support Alias or anyone else that feels bullied.

I have known Alias for years and years before you joined the forum

I am not interested in what Caroline says because I believe she is wrong

[Neil]

I think that Adam has been treated appallingly during his time on this forum.  I tend to scan read his posts, to be honest, but I don't ever remember him having instigated a fued. 

[Neil]

I am here for one reason only because I believe Jeremy is innocent.

I will support Alias or anyone else that feels bullied.

I have known Alias for years and years before you joined the forum

I am not interested in what Caroline says because I believe she is wrong

Good post.

[tyler]

I don't think that Alias is a 'proper' moderator? But I for one certainly think that she should be. Alias is intelligent,level headed and very lovely,but also assertive which,I feel is an important requirement as a moderator. Having Alias as a moderator would also balance out our current moderators regarding the guilty/innocence stance and would be fairer. Imo.