The truth is people after they have lost loved ones do not know what to do to get them out of their minds. One should never use the strange ways of Bamber just after the murder of his family in order to bash him with it. To do so is cruel and unfeeling.
There are 3 truths:
1) People try to help their loved ones and need to be stopped by first responders who are more catious and rational
2) people who lose a loved one to murder want to know what happened and how
3) people who survive have survivor's guilt ESPECIALLY if they were partially repsonsible as the claims that Jeremy made woudl in fact make him.
Jeremy exhibited none of these things.
He called police well after he called Julie.
He only went to the scene because police requeste dhim to go
He made sure he drove as slow as dirt so police would reach the scene before him and pulled over upon seeing them coming. It was a mile away yet he took more than 3 minutes to finally pull up behind police.
He then lied and told police Sheila used all arms in the house especially the .22 he had claimed he left out.
He calmly showed no care for them at all.
The only time he showed any emotion was hours later when he forced himself to puke in what he told Julie was an act and Julie had know way to know he puked except because he told her.
He never ever exhibited any sorrow for leaving out the weapon let alone told anyone he felt responsible. That is a big red flag.
The man acted nothing at all like someone in his place would do and when you look at all the key evidence it is obvious why- he did it.
