Taken from David Shaws manuscript
Anji Greaves had stood by Jeremy during his twelve months in custody awaiting trial. On remand Jeremy had written over 100 letters to her. She’d said at the time: ‘I can’t believe that someone who blushed like a schoolboy and longed to be hugged all the time could possibly have murdered his family.’ During the latter stages of the trial she had organized a party for his release from court and a subsequent holiday. With two girlfriends she had decorated the room with banners. One of them was fifteen foot long and said: ‘Faith, love, truth, freedom. Welcome home, Jeremy.’ Considering the recent turn of events, she told a reporter: ‘I don’t know if I can bring myself to go on visiting now. It could be a life sentence for both of us.’
There are a lot of misconceptions about Jeremys strict upbringing by his parents and I believe this rumour has been circulated to give further reasons for him to carry out the murders
From my own personal experience and phone calls with Jeremy he had been bought up strictly but with a lot of love. The Jeremy described above by an ex girlfriend was definitely shown love while growing up . Jeremy can be very open about his feelings for many different people from his past.