From Colin's book,chapter one,
It was just after midday on Wednesday,7 August 1985,that I went to answer an unexpected ring on the doorbell - I was about to make lunch for myself.
'Mr.Colin Caffell?'
'Yes'
'Do you know Sheila Caffell?'
'Yes,she's my ex-wife.What's wrong?'
'I'm afraid we have to tell you that she's dead.'
Those words caught me completely off guard.
'Oh no,then she finally did it!' I said,almost thinking out loud.
With Bamb's recent history of mental illness,the possibility of suicide rang horribly true,but I didn't have a chance to think or ask questions.The policewoman went on:
'Are you the father of Nicholas and Daniel Caffell?'
'Yes,' I said,feeling a terrible panic rising inside me. I didn't want them to say anything else.
'I think we had better go into your flat,where it's more private.'
I then noticed that my neighbours had opened their door a chink.
Once inside,we went to my living - room,and the dark-haired policewoman vanished into the kitchen.
'Mr Caffell,I'm afraid I have to tell you that both your sons,Daniel and Nicholas, are also dead There has been a shooting at a farmhouse in Essex;there are also two other adults dead...'
(Note) I have only posted this excerpt from Colin's book for those who haven't read it,to dispel the myths of what Colin is alleged to have said or not to have said. The post may be an infringement of copyright laws and therefore I fully understand if it needs to be deleted.
Thanks for that ,Tyler. The conversation according to Colin, whilst confirming that he was told first of Sheila's death first does nothing to dispel the notion that Colin was willing to accept that Sheila was responsible.
When first told that Sheila was dead , according to Colin, he has leapt to the conclusion that Sheila was responsible without being told that she was.
As there is no correction to this assumption on being told of the twins deaths then it is fair to assume that he still felt that "she finally did it".
Colin , according to this conversation was told of Sheila's death and assumed that she had committed suicide without being told and it can be further inferred that he had a reasonable expectation that this was in some way expected.
So even accepting that he was told of Sheila's death first it cannot be inferred that that he had any trouble accepting that Sheila was responsible and in fact the opposite is true.