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« Reply #60 on: May 17, 2015, 09:40:AM »
Nothing's impossible but would there have been time for a hole to be dug in the time they realised he was missing (unless the family was in on it)? The ground looks tough to dig but I'm not dismissing it. I'd have thought if he fell, his body would have been recovered but it seems the farm house was remote so I wonder how the family could have been followed and then Ben kidnapped.
I do know the toddlers round here move extremely fast, so as I say I wouldn't rule anything out.

Jo I have had the same thoughts myself.  To dig a grave for little Ben without the grandparents knowing would have been nigh impossible I think.  Unless the little guy wandered off and was taken.  It is all so sad.  Did I not read a JCB was working in the area and the little guy may have been killed accidently by going to close when it was working. :(

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« Reply #61 on: May 17, 2015, 11:06:AM »

Morning all

I was looking around on he net yesterday and found the first news report on our local TV news station.

It appears there were construction workers at the remote house, but I don't know how many of them were there at the time Ben went missing.  I do find it odd that Ben just disappeared within one minute of going outside.  I doubt the family were being watched in such a remote place or that a child could have been seen from the road...Its a mystery.

If you look at the video there is an interview with one of the neighnours at Norfolk Park where she says that Ben used to knock on her door and would take her hand and walk with her.  I was a bit shocked that Ben would be allowed out at such a young age...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-VWLhqC6t8

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« Reply #62 on: May 17, 2015, 12:13:PM »
Morning Patti,
In view of the way the child was allowed to have gone along with the neighbour,I too was shocked to hear that and points me to the way the McCanns were vilified ??
Ben was a baby in comparison and you don't let babies out of your sight. Yes,shocked,and surprised too.Whether remote or not,it shouldn't have happened.
Sadly,with both the McCanns and the Needhams,it's been a question of guilt that they've brought the subjects up over the years.
I'm not saying that you wouldn't go to the ends of the earth looking,of course you would,but I think more so if you'd felt at fault. 

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« Reply #63 on: May 17, 2015, 12:35:PM »
Morning Patti,
In view of the way the child was allowed to have gone along with the neighbour,I too was shocked to hear that and points me to the way the McCanns were vilified ??
Ben was a baby in comparison and you don't let babies out of your sight. Yes,shocked,and surprised too.Whether remote or not,it shouldn't have happened.
Sadly,with both the McCanns and the Needhams,it's been a question of guilt that they've brought the subjects up over the years.
I'm not saying that you wouldn't go to the ends of the earth looking,of course you would,but I think more so if you'd felt at fault.


Hi Lookout

Of course, you would look forever for your child. I know I would never give up.  Blame must be an enormous burden.  "Why did I not think to have my children safe by my side", must be felt by both sets of parents.

Trouble is it could happen to any of us...you turn your head for a few minutes and they are gone, like the toddler on the beach in Portugal....where Amaral said he had drowned in the sea, but he was taken....Children can be snatched from home like Elizabeth Short and there was an incident where a child was snatched from her own bath here in England....

Preditors are out there and they operate all over the world in my opinion.... Someone must know the truth Lookout.  :(

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« Reply #64 on: May 17, 2015, 01:46:PM »

Hi Lookout

Of course, you would look forever for your child. I know I would never give up.  Blame must be an enormous burden.  "Why did I not think to have my children safe by my side", must be felt by both sets of parents.

Trouble is it could happen to any of us...you turn your head for a few minutes and they are gone, like the toddler on the beach in Portugal....where Amaral said he had drowned in the sea, but he was taken....Children can be snatched from home like Elizabeth Short and there was an incident where a child was snatched from her own bath here in England....

Preditors are out there and they operate all over the world in my opinion.... Someone must know the truth Lookout.  :(







Patti it horrifies me the amount of children who are stolen. More so now than ever before. A few years ago,a friend and I were on the beach at Blanes/Spain, and a distraught little girl came to us crying for her mummy. Both my friend and I gathered up our stuff and walked up and down the beach with this child what seemed like ages,until we saw the poor demented mother near the sea thinking that the child may have wandered into the water.
I was absolutely furious at the time that the woman hadn't kept an eye on the little girl ( Amy ) and between my fury and the womans hysterics,there was quite a gathering that had surrounded us. However,I was glad it was me that the child came to,because I felt quite sick afterwards thinking what might have been. It's an horrendous and frightening feeling when there are hoards of people around.
To be honest,I could have hit the woman  ;D ;D ;D but for her having been hysterical,I thought better of it.
I've thought about this woman when I read about children being taken,or missing.She was so distraught that day,it was awful to see,and I was vexed because of what could have happened. It doesn't bear thinking about what these parents go through.

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« Reply #65 on: May 17, 2015, 03:22:PM »
The latest on the DNA testing of a man who came forward in the Ben Needham case is an imposter.
I hope he gets charged with wasting time and also further dampening the spirits of the family.I don't understand why people do this sort of thing knowing that they're not who they say they are. Cranks !

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« Reply #66 on: May 17, 2015, 03:59:PM »
The latest on the DNA testing of a man who came forward in the Ben Needham case is an imposter.
I hope he gets charged with wasting time and also further dampening the spirits of the family.I don't understand why people do this sort of thing knowing that they're not who they say they are. Cranks !


Unless you know more, isn't that a little harsh? I have no idea of what was happening around me when I was the age of Ben when he disappeared. WAS he deliberately wasting police time OR did he genuinely wonder, for reasons we don't know about, if he'd been a "changeling"? We could say that ANY male of the right sort of age is a Ben imposter but in most cases, doing DNA tests of any who may come forward, may be the only way to elliminate them.

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« Reply #67 on: May 17, 2015, 06:50:PM »

Unless you know more, isn't that a little harsh? I have no idea of what was happening around me when I was the age of Ben when he disappeared. WAS he deliberately wasting police time OR did he genuinely wonder, for reasons we don't know about, if he'd been a "changeling"? We could say that ANY male of the right sort of age is a Ben imposter but in most cases, doing DNA tests of any who may come forward, may be the only way to elliminate them.






According to the news,the man was an imposter,as I imagine there'll be a few, for whatever reason the appeal brings them forward.It doesn't state anything else other than he was an imposter. Nothing about him having been dumped at birth or anything,but then again,how would anyone know,from a baby,whether they'd been stolen or not ? A baby of 21 months at the time wouldn't remember so aren't likely to come forward unless they now have that knowledge.

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« Reply #68 on: May 18, 2015, 10:56:PM »
"Detectives believe they may have received the vital phone call that will help them solve the 24-year mystery of missing toddler Ben Needham.

British officers yesterday spoke of the “exciting” calls which came flooding in after they appeared on Greece’s hugely popular version of Crimewatch.

Police have now received 85 calls and emails from Greek nationals, including seven ‘interesting’ leads.

Some callers suggested they were Ben, who would now be 25. Others said they knew who Ben was.

Afterwards Ben’s gran Christine, 62, said: “I think in all those calls there is the magic one. I’m so excited.”

Another was a claim about what might have happened in the very early days on the Greek island of Kos."

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Re: Ben Needham
« Reply #69 on: May 19, 2015, 11:22:AM »
I hope there is a lead, but I remain doubtful. I really hope I am wrong,

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« Reply #70 on: May 19, 2015, 12:08:PM »
I would remain hopeful,the same as I do with Madeleine McCann,as nothing otherwise has been reported. There is always that gleam of hope.

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« Reply #71 on: May 19, 2015, 12:25:PM »
I would remain hopeful,the same as I do with Madeleine McCann,as nothing otherwise has been reported. There is always that gleam of hope.


I just have this gut feeling Lookout that something is not right,  :'(

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« Reply #72 on: May 19, 2015, 04:24:PM »

I just have this gut feeling Lookout that something is not right,  :'(






You mean in the sense that the little chap is no longer with us ?