Grief

[guest154]

thats alright I am more attracted to older ladies! 

 

[susan]

Hi packagebuilder  I'm old but not sure about the lady bit

[guest154]

I wonder if Mat regrets introducing himself on the forum, in the manner he did.  Not that it upset me, I hasten to add.

Yes! I do. I didn't have any idea that people would be so suspicious though.

[Neil]

Yes! I do. I didn't have any idea that people would be so suspicious though.

You can be forgiven for not appreciating that, Mat.  I joined around the same time as you and its only as time has passed that I have come to appreciate  just how many troublemakers are out there.  I think that it's perfectly understandable why some on here are so suspicious.  Sadly, not everyone is as trusting as you. 

[Alyce]

Well,Andrea,,it was the Sun newspaper that Jeremy allegedly approached,for the purchase of the said photos,so my guess is that you had a little sneak preview to see if they'd been printed.

Oooooh no lookout she doesn't READ the Sun but she believes in what it's reporter, Fielder says (hypocrite)

[Bridget]

Oooooh no lookout she doesn't READ the Sun but she believes in what it's reporter, Fielder says (hypocrite)

Fielder gave a statement to that effect didn't he? Has Jeremy ever actually denied it?

[Alyce]

Hi everyone, just got back from holidays so apologies if this has been posted before..I did a psychology course a few years back and as in most theories on the subject there are certain 'facts' and 'myths', but the first common stage of grief is 'denial' which can last from hours to weeks and months. Right after a loss, it can be hard to accept what happened. You may feel numb, have trouble believing that the loss really happened, or even deny the truth. If someone you love has died, you may keep expecting them to show up, even though you know they’re gone. Jeremy had the press on his back and was under the scrutiny of his vulture relatives....I would have gone away for a while too and people calling it a 'holiday' imo are being flippant...
Most people coping with grief can turn to to family members – Now is the time to lean on the people who care about you, even if you take pride in being strong and self-sufficient. You draw loved ones close, rather than avoiding them, and accept the assistance that’s offered. Jeremy did Not have this option imo............................

[Alyce]

Fielder gave a statement to that effect didn't he? Has Jeremy ever actually denied it?

Yes Bridget, Jeremy has denied it on many occassions.....He was actually contacted by Fielder asking if he had any modelling pictures of Shiela....Maybe Jeremy was naive but don't forget he was only 24 and NOT worldly wise...He took Brett along with him to the meeting set up by Fielder out of curiousity, but he did NOT take any pictures with him...Jeremy has never seen such pictures and certainly was not in the possession of any such pictures...

[Bridget]

Yes Bridget, Jeremy has denied it on many occassions.....He was actually contacted by Fielder asking if he had any modelling pictures of Shiela....Maybe Jeremy was naive but don't forget he was only 24 and NOT worldly wise...He took Brett along with him to the meeting set up by Fielder out of curiousity, but he did NOT take any pictures with him...Jeremy has never seen such pictures and certainly was not in the possession of any such pictures...

Ok, fair enough, thanks for the explanation.

[susan]

Good Morning Bridget how are you today.  Well I hope.

[Bridget]

Good Morning Bridget how are you today.  Well I hope.

Morning Susan

I'm fine thanks, just popping in and out between battles with the brambles invading from next door... I'm losing

[Bridget]

Hi Bridget

A bit like your battles on the JB forum then   

oof! Cheap shot! Lucky for you I'm in a good mood 

[maggie]

Hi everyone, just got back from holidays so apologies if this has been posted before..I did a psychology course a few years back and as in most theories on the subject there are certain 'facts' and 'myths', but the first common stage of grief is 'denial' which can last from hours to weeks and months. Right after a loss, it can be hard to accept what happened. You may feel numb, have trouble believing that the loss really happened, or even deny the truth. If someone you love has died, you may keep expecting them to show up, even though you know they’re gone. Jeremy had the press on his back and was under the scrutiny of his vulture relatives....I would have gone away for a while too and people calling it a 'holiday' imo are being flippant...
Most people coping with grief can turn to to family members – Now is the time to lean on the people who care about you, even if you take pride in being strong and self-sufficient. You draw loved ones close, rather than avoiding them, and accept the assistance that’s offered. Jeremy did Not have this option imo............................

Well said Tracy and so true.

[Patti]

Hi everyone, just got back from holidays so apologies if this has been posted before..I did a psychology course a few years back and as in most theories on the subject there are certain 'facts' and 'myths', but the first common stage of grief is 'denial' which can last from hours to weeks and months. Right after a loss, it can be hard to accept what happened. You may feel numb, have trouble believing that the loss really happened, or even deny the truth. If someone you love has died, you may keep expecting them to show up, even though you know they’re gone. Jeremy had the press on his back and was under the scrutiny of his vulture relatives....I would have gone away for a while too and people calling it a 'holiday' imo are being flippant...
Most people coping with grief can turn to to family members – Now is the time to lean on the people who care about you, even if you take pride in being strong and self-sufficient. You draw loved ones close, rather than avoiding them, and accept the assistance that’s offered. Jeremy did Not have this option imo............................

excellent post Tracy. I agree with everything you have said there. I lot my parents 7 years ago and found grieving very hard with what was going on. Only now am I at CRUISE which will last about a year. So I can relate to all you have said there...What I can't understand is that people tend to ignore reality and the reality is that we each except grief in different ways. One persons' exceptence is not necessarily the same as others. 

[Patti]

oof! Cheap shot! Lucky for you I'm in a good mood