You may well be a barrister but you'd have no hope of convicting Julie on drug trafficking if there were no drugs in her possession but only in Jeremy's bag,and it's about time a colleague of yours had a quiet word in your ear and told you so. You also made allegations about conspiracy to murder or accessory to murder which would be laughed out of court. I'm sorry to make it personal as this has not been my way on this site at least,but you should face reality.
Steve, IMO, because of a real or imagined relationship with Julie, this has never NOT been personal with you. YOU are, for the most part, treated with respect, unlike other forums where, again, IMO, you've been treated contemptuously but frankly, at the moment you're going a long way to deserve that sort of contempt. All you needed to do was apologise but it seems that you would rather present yourself as arrogant and as Neil says, thoroughly offensive.