Thank you so much everyone for your kind words. I came off of the forum on Monday to chill for a while because I found myself over reacting to a series of personal attacks in some threads by posting personal attacks myself. There is no excuse or need for such nastiness. My daughter has been very ill in recent months, though thank God she now seems to be improving, and my two elderly cats have been ill too, one sadly had to be put down. I think all of this made me rather over sensitive.