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Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« on: April 16, 2025, 07:41:PM »
The source for this is......Bamber.

He did contradict this. Both on the night and decades later.

He believed telling police at WHF this he had justified why Nevill had called him & not 999.

Does anyone else have another source that Nevill did not like getting authorities involved in domestics?

Am happy to retract.
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #1 on: April 16, 2025, 07:45:PM »
Not sure what Bamber is basing his statement on.

Was he at WHF when there was a domestic which should have involved the police. But Nevill kept it private? He has never mentioned one.

Both him & Sheila had not lived there for a long time. Prior to that they both went to boarding school at an early age. Then lived there lives away from WHF. 
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #2 on: April 16, 2025, 07:52:PM »
Obviously if there are no other sources, Bamber's claim will be dismissed.

Not least because he has twice contradicted himself.

It is very unlikely Nevill would call Bamber's AM instead of 999.
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #3 on: April 16, 2025, 07:54:PM »
The source for this is......Bamber.

He did contradict this. Both on the night and decades later.

He believed telling police at WHF this he had justified why Nevill had called him & not 999.

Does anyone else have another source that Nevill did not like getting authorities involved in domestics?

Am happy to retract.
I don’t think Neville would want any police involvement in anything, maybe it would cause him problems allowing Sheila to gain access to his guns, but there comes a stage where someone is going crazy with a gun when you have to make a decision based on the seriousness of the situation, was phoning Jeremy that such person or was it a made up story from Jeremy is the question?

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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #4 on: April 16, 2025, 08:10:PM »
If Bamber is telling the truth it is he who made the decision to phone police. He said he tried phoning WHF and got an engaged tone.

Bamber said Nevills words were him were " please come over, your sister has gone crazy and HAS the gun "


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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #5 on: April 16, 2025, 08:11:PM »
Defence point at trial is that " Bamber did not appreciate the seriousness of the situation "

" and had been to frightened to go over alone "
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #6 on: April 16, 2025, 08:13:PM »
If the police had been called and the situation had not ended up like it did very likely Daniel and Nicholas would be stopped from being in Shelias care in any shape or form.

Which in turn stops Nevill and June having any contact.

Social services would be all over it.
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #7 on: April 16, 2025, 08:14:PM »
He also probably didn't want Shelia to get arrested.

I outlined along with CC various reasons in another thread recently.
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #8 on: April 16, 2025, 08:18:PM »
He also probably didn't want Shelia to get arrested.

I outlined along with CC various reasons in another thread recently.

Appreciate you are going to justify Nevill ringing Bamber.

Just want to know if there are other sources.
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #9 on: April 16, 2025, 08:22:PM »
Appreciate you are going to justify Nevill ringing Bamber.

Just want to know if there are other sources.

We are not going to be privy to how many domestics had taken place, all we can work from is shelias hospital admissions. Whether or not a domestic coincided with them I'm unsure.
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #10 on: April 16, 2025, 08:27:PM »
Not sure what Bamber is basing his statement on.

Was he at WHF when there was a domestic which should have involved the police. But Nevill kept it private? He has never mentioned one.

Both him & Sheila had not lived there for a long time. Prior to that they both went to boarding school at an early age. Then lived there lives away from WHF.

Although not close the fact that they shared the same adoptive parents would have kept them in touch with each other. They would have known the details of each others life's.
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #11 on: April 16, 2025, 08:30:PM »
I believe his only justification for Nevill calling him & not the police was said on the night.

I don't recall anything else from him pre 2010 when he retracted and started saying Nevill did call the police.
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #12 on: April 16, 2025, 08:35:PM »
He may have thought the same as you that NB would be able single handedly to bring the situation under control, hence his dildayiling.

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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #13 on: April 16, 2025, 08:40:PM »
Understand why he would try to justify why Nevill would call him & not 999.

Either the police asked him or he wanted to say it on the night as part of his narrative. 

As he is the only source & I believe him guilty, will have to say I do not believe it to be the case.
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Re: Nevill not wanting police involved in domestics:
« Reply #14 on: April 16, 2025, 08:44:PM »
Nevill was known to call police at Witham " dad's army"

The insinuation is there.
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