Your words will be music to many ears, here! Re the FS, she can't actually be credited with being a reliable witness. Running with the hare and chasing with the hounds comes to mind. First, JB was charming, and more polite to her than her own son, then suddenly, she was afraid of him. Of course, one doesn't rule out the other, does it? Neville shared many 'secrets' with her, but he's not here to say otherwise..........